Listen "E #410: The Audacity of Self-Validation - how to live with out likes & move past social approval"
Episode Synopsis
In this episode, Kehla dives into the raw truth about what makes you insensible to needing recognition and validation from others or the world around you. She will guide you through the transformative process of deciding to have your own back, no matter what.
Discover why relying on external validation sets you up to quit before you even begin, leaving you with zero foundation to stand on. When you back yourself, you’re not up against anyone else—you’re up against yourself, and that’s where the real game begins.
Kehla will break down how to sell two crucial things: your offers and, more importantly, yourself. She will delve into understanding how much validation and recognition you truly need, revealing that knowing the answer puts you in control and helps you stop giving your power away to fulfill your ego.
Learn that the need for validation and recognition is a self-construct that can be dissolved. Kehla will highlight how this need comes from a place of ego and how it prevents you from showing up and selling in the way you deeply desire. This self-fulfilling prophecy keeps you stuck, but she will show you how accepting that you don’t have control actually gives you control.
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Discover why relying on external validation sets you up to quit before you even begin, leaving you with zero foundation to stand on. When you back yourself, you’re not up against anyone else—you’re up against yourself, and that’s where the real game begins.
Kehla will break down how to sell two crucial things: your offers and, more importantly, yourself. She will delve into understanding how much validation and recognition you truly need, revealing that knowing the answer puts you in control and helps you stop giving your power away to fulfill your ego.
Learn that the need for validation and recognition is a self-construct that can be dissolved. Kehla will highlight how this need comes from a place of ego and how it prevents you from showing up and selling in the way you deeply desire. This self-fulfilling prophecy keeps you stuck, but she will show you how accepting that you don’t have control actually gives you control.
DM Kehla the word "EDGE" to chat about next steps to join The Edge Mastermind.
Get the video session of this episode here.
Work with Kehla:
The Edge Mastermind ft. Signature Program by Design
Get the Gene Keys Podcast Compendium
Check out Kehla's website
Grab Kehla’s Freebies
Follow Kehla on IG
Follow Kehla on Insight Timer
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