What if the very systems you’ve been told will set your child up for success are actually programming them for lifelong victimhood & dependence? In this episode, I’m talking with Dr. Tom Cowan about the deeper forces shaping parental decision-making. We dive into unschooling, natural parenting, and the socially conditioned beliefs that make parenting much harder than it needs to be. We also discuss Tom’s new book, Common Sense Child Rearing: Unconventional Wisdom for a Nourished Childhood, and why curiosity is your best ally as a parent. Tune in to learn how to decondition yourself from fear-based parenting, why forced learning backfires, and how you understand your child’s behavior while truly connecting with them. Chapters:(00:00) Start(03:45) Introduction to Dr. Tom Cowan’s work(04:01) Reframing the societal belief that parenting must be difficult(15:32) Why overcoming personal difficulties is essential for children to grow into strong individuals(20:43) Tom Cowan explains why helicopter parenting is a recipe for raising weak children(28:47) Children learn through osmosis and copying their parents' behavior(32:28) Debunking the myth that children don’t remember their birth(35:12) Why you can’t dictate the “right way” for your children to live(38:28) How to understand your child’s behavior and truly connect with them(45:24) Tom Cowan's approach to healing the parent-child divide(49:49) The impact of medical interventions during pregnancy and birth on the nuclear family(56:10) How early schooling can undermine a child’s sense of individuality(01:02:28) Why forced learning fails to produce lasting results(01:08:38) Curiosity is the best teacher(01:14:14) Understanding why your child is rebelling at schoolCheck out Tom Cowan’s new book: Commonsense Childrearing: Unconventional Wisdom for a Nourished ChildhoodConnect with Tom Cowan, MDWebsiteInstagramConnect with Eyla Cuenca: Website InstagramYouTubeConnect with Born To Know:InstagramWebsiteApple PodcastsSpotifyBorn To Know is created by:Host & Executive Producer: Eyla CuencaPost-Producer & Editor: Victoria Rondón Copywriter: Caty Lee Graphic & Website Designer: Turbo RainbowWant to dive deeper into the world of birth? Join the Uncovering Birth Family

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