Mother’s Day can cause a lot of anxiety – no one wants to disappoint Mom. What do mothers really want on a day carved out with only them in mind? Here are seven ideas that come right from mother’s themselves – maybe help you to think about the perfect gift for your mom or moms plural in your life and they are really very simple: 

To be with her children. Ask any mother what makes her feel special and the answer, hands down, is to be with her children and spend time with them. Togetherness is everything for a mom.
A Letter or Handwritten Note Card. Nothing is more personal than a heartfelt note or letter. Tell her about something she did in your life that made an impact on you.
A Special Meal. It’s always nice to go out for a special occasion but if you cooked it yourself it’s extra special. 
To be Pampered. Selfcare has become specifically important, especially if your mom is one that cares for others and is maybe a caregiver for their own Mom or Dad. A massage, facial or manicure or pedicure is especially appreciated during these stressful times.
Peace and Serenity. On this one special day – promise mom that there will be no debating, arguing, or noise. Put the household on notice that peace and quiet is the rule of the day.  That kind of peace can go a long way and I know it is incredibly challenging to find quiet time it seems these days.  I cherish that kind of quiet when I can find it. 
A Duty-Free Day. Mom are so often multi-tasking and doing for others – so much so that often times we forget how much they really take care of in a typical day – making breakfast, getting the kids up and ready for school – driving them to school, then onto the office – managing kid’s sports and other activities in the day – then wrapping up work and trying to get back home to make dinner for everyone.  It gets tough to find time to take care of yourself.  Maybe let Mother’s Day be duty-free. Mom doesn’t lift a finger to do anything…not one thing.
Thoughtfulness. Just knowing that motherhood is recognized and acknowledged goes a long way. Simple gestures of love and admiration make moms feel special.

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