After a previous episode about clear communication, it has popped up in so many amazing and inspiring conversations that many of us feel uncomfortable saying no. But I am here to tell you that we have to get better. As women, it is so common for us to say yes when we really want to say no and I have been down that road many times.  Throughout my journey, I have become much better about saying no and being honest. I have always been a direct person, but I have also been a people-pleaser and it has put me in some situations that do not reflect my wants and needs. We all have an inner voice and an inner compass, but are we listening to it? In today’s episode, I am laying out some real examples that you can probably relate to. And as always, I have some actionable steps to take to start using your vulnerability to practice saying no. While uncomfortable at first, this muscle needs strengthening and once you’ve strengthened it, you can finally be you. To join Jill's private feed click here: https://beyou.supercast.tech ---------- The Be You Podcast by coach and spirituality and wellness enthusiast Jill Herman is all about women helping women to unbecome everything they thought they had to be and unapologetically embracing their trust self. Jill covers topics like healing, parenting, self love, women helping women, spirituality and much more.    Through the Be You podcast and her work with the Be You Collective, Jill makes the challenging process of healing approachable, especially when it comes to parenting and self love. She draws on her personal parenting experiences, her own healing journey, and wisdom from coaches and thought leaders like Glennon Doyle, Lisa Bilyeu, Luke Storey, Christine Hasler, and more.    Whether you’re looking for parenting advice, a community of women helping women, or you’re on your own healing journey, the Be You Podcast is for you.   Instagram:  @jillhermanbeyou  @beyoupodcast_  ---------- Glennon Doyle on being yourself: “Every girl must decide whether to be true to herself or true to the world.” - Glennon Doyle   Glennon Doyle on women helping women: “People who need help sometimes look a lot like people who don’t need help.” - Glennon Doyle   Glennon Doyle on healing: “What if pain - like love - is just a place brave people visit?” - Glennon Doyle   Lisa Bilyeu on women helping women: “Cheer for your girls like you got pom-poms at a pep rally.” - Lisa Bilyeu   Lisa Bilyeu on healing: “If you’re still looking for that one person who will change your life, take a look in the mirror.” - Lisa Bileyu   Lisa Bilyeu on women helping women: “Choose your life’s board members like you’re building a Fortune 500 company.” - Lisa Bilyeu   Tucker Max on being yourself: “If people try to judge you or shame you for doing safe, consensual things that make you happy, I can guarantee you they're bad people.” - Tucker Max   Tucker Max on healing: “Pretending to be something you aren't because you're trying to please a bunch of judgmental hypocrites and shitheads is not the way to be happy. Living the life you want to live is.” - Tucker Max   Tucker Max on healing: “Men will treat you the way you let them. You get what you demand from people.” - Tucker Max   Luke Storey on healing: “Within self honesty and self awareness is a modicum of humility and that's all you really need to affect change." - Luke Storey   Luke Storey on healing: “The foundation to your healing is to not be committed to your lies.” - Luke Storey   Christine Hasler on healing: “Know that the qualities you admire in others are the qualities you need to recognize and nurture inside yourself.” - Christine Hasler   Christine Hasler on parenting: “People come in and out of our lives to share them with us, contribute, support us, and teach us, but they never complete us.” - Christine Hasler Christine Hasler on healing: “It is in the most undesirable of external circumstances that we discover internal qualities like courage, faith, compassion, inspiration, acceptance, and love.” - Christine Hasler

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