Let's stop the cycle of contempt and learn to disagree better! In this video, we discuss how to fix our broken conversations and bridge the divide in our nation.Are we really more divided than ever—or just worse at disagreeing?In this episode of An Ounce, we explore how contempt has crept into every corner of modern life—from relationships and work meetings to dinner tables and online comment sections—and why it's killing our ability to communicate. You'll hear insights from Stoic philosophers, historical figures like Lincoln and Mandela, and even modern research on what actually ends relationships (hint: it’s not yelling).________________________________________⏱️ Chapters00:00 – Intro01:16 – Conversation That Broke Down02:41 – The Real Enemy03:49 – In the Living Room – Relationships04:40 – The Family Table – Political Polarization at Home05:31 – At Work06:27 – Online: Public Contempt Preformed for Audience07:33 – The Temptation of Contempt08:33 – Why Civility Isn’t Enough09:16 – The Better Way10:43 – How Grace Stops Contempt11:25 – Challenge12:32 – An Ounce________________________________________🎥 Watch More Great Videos:👉 You’ve Been Lied To: The Truth Behind History’s Biggest Myths – What else have we been so sure about… and so wrong?https://youtu.be/JpHTMQV-XPQ➡️ The Nicholas Effect – A true story about choosing grace over contempt—and changing lives.https://youtu.be/Affw-qmLQog➡️ If It Feels Good – How something soothing (like contempt) can be more dangerous than it seems. https://youtu.be/Z39Qf8z0gB4________________________________________📚 References & Resources:1. Pew Research (2021):https://www.pewresearch.org/politics/2021/11/09/americans-politics-and-politicians/2. John Gottman on contempt and divorce:https://www.gottman.com/blog/the-four-horsemen-the-antidotes/3. Nelson Mandela’s inaugural address & reconciliation:https://www.sahistory.org.za/article/inaugural-address-president-nelson-mandela-19944. RBG and Scalia friendship (NPR):https://www.npr.org/2016/02/14/466620117/the-odd-couple-antonin-scalia-and-ruth-bader-ginsburg5. Socrates and questioning truth (Plato’s Apology summary):https://plato.stanford.edu/entries/socrates/6. Frederick Douglass and William Lloyd Garrison (Blight, 2018):https://www.pulitzer.org/winners/david-w-blight7. Additional Reading: More Love, Less Contempt, Arthur C. Brooks, President of the American Enterprise Institute, April 25, 2019. Found at-  https://speeches.byu.edu/talks/arthur-c-brooks/more-love-less-contempt/________________________________________🛒 Check Out My Book:Firehouse Philosophy – Real stories and lessons from an exceptional life📘 On Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Firehouse-Philosophy-Embers-Insight-Exceptional/dp/B0BJ58Q1FS________________________________________📬 Contact / Collaboration Inquiries:[email protected]________________________________________🎵 Credits:Music: VENTATESANANDA by Jesse Gallagher from YouTube LibraryIllustrative and Background Visuals: iStock, Getty, Wikimedia, and AI-generated________________________________________📢 Subscribe for Short History, Big IdeasAn Ounce Podcast delivers daily Shorts and weekly episodes that are surprising, thoughtful, and just a little bit profound.#historypodcast #shortformhistory #lifelessons #storytellingpodcast #humorandhistory #educationalentertainment #realstories 10 second pre-roll promo for An Ounce Podcast on YouTube

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