‘Now that’s none of your f***ing business’😤

…is a very clear and possibly effective answer to a question that feels very inappropriate to you.

Question is… will it serve the relationship you have with this person? 🤔

If you don’t care, go for it.
If you do care. Hmmmm. There are more effective
answers.💯

Moreover…. is the question really stupid or is it triggering something inside of you?

Something you still need to process. Something you
are hiding under the rug🧹.
Hoping it will disappear.

However much I want you to be successful in hiding
it, I know that in the long run it doesn’t work.

And in the short run, well…. you have the ‘inappropriate’ questions that mess up your hiding plan.

I believe there are several roads to healing. You can dive in deep. And you can start with learning new skills. Like new ways to respond to ‘stupid’ questions.

If you want to learn the skill of responding and with that, setting boundaries,
Join my maillist and get the FREE mini-masterclass ‘How to deal with unwanted questions around (no) motherhood?’
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Much love,
Anne ☀️



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