What is a Family?

02/08/2022 45 min Temporada 5 Episodio 48
What is a Family?

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Episode Synopsis

Family is a complicated word that has so many meanings, but I think that at the end of the day it's about creating a community. Over the years I have worked to create my chosen family, alongside my biological one and I encourage my children to do the same. In this episode, I explore the concept of family and how it can be whatever you want it to be.   Key Takeaways:    [3:29] Feeling out of place in my family  [5:46] My biological and extended family growing up  [11:42] Redefining what family means with adoption and who we are as people [15:20] My life falling apart with Molly dying  [17:58] The definition of family and what it means   [22:37] The meaning of the word "queer" has changed  [25:03] Choosing what you think is right or your family  [27:31] Family is community  [30:08] Sharing a history of abuse with the women in my family  [23:59] I always want to have a resolution with the people in my life [34:52] Thinking about what everyone in a family needs to thrive  [36:51] Feeling obligated to honor your family  [38:34] I want Jack to have lots of chosen family  [40:12] I was trying to create a white picket fence life which didn't exist   [41:19] Trying to find more balance in my life  [42:55] What is your family like? Resources:   Queer Family Building 101 Eat Walk, Half Double podcast Connect with Barb:   Website   Facebook    Instagram   YouTube   The Molly B Foundation