I'm Not Coming Out. I'm Welcoming People In | with Lewis Johnson

10/07/2025 1h 8min Episodio 62
I'm Not Coming Out. I'm Welcoming People In | with Lewis Johnson

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In this powerful episode of The 3 Parallels Podcast, Dr. Jason Branch is joined by Dr. Lewis Johnson for a conversation that explores identity, healing, fatherhood, and what it truly means to grow. Lewis shares his journey of becoming a father through adoption, but it’s not just about parenthood. It’s about breaking cycles, confronting childhood trauma, and becoming the kind of man he didn’t always see growing up. They explore the intersections of race, sexuality, masculinity, and vulnerability, with Lewis speaking openly about navigating life as a Black gay man. He reflects on the shift from hiding parts of himself to standing fully in his truth, not by “coming out,” but by choosing to “welcome people in.” That shift in language says everything about how he sees growth as an internal process first. The conversation shifts between the personal and the social, exploring how we present ourselves in our friendships, how we challenge outdated beliefs, and how we make choices in a world where convenience often clashes with our values. From discussing platforms like Amazon and Target to breaking down stereotypes about what it means to be a man, this episode holds space for honesty and self-reflection. Through it all, Dr. Branch and Lewis keep it grounded in genuine friendship and fundamental transformation. They don’t offer perfection. They offer the possibility. And by the end of the episode, you're left with a reminder: growth is ongoing, identity is layered, and we all have the right to choose who and what we let into our lives.🎯 3 Listener Challenges:* Reflect on your identity.What parts of your identity have you feared embracing? Write down what it would look like to live more authentically this week.* Audit your environment.Who are you currently "welcoming in"—and are they aligned with your values? Make one decision this week based on your values, not comfort.Challenge your view of masculinity.Write down three messages you were taught about masculinity. Are they still serving you? If not, rewrite them in your own words.This episode is brought to you by our amazing sponsor:J Branch & Associates: Schedule your free 15 minute consultation by going to www.drjbranch.com; call or text (404) 436-2540 Connect with The 3 Parallels Podcast:Instagram: www.instagram.com/3parallelspodcastDownload the 3 Parallels Music Playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2DCvaDp1wWypO59l1kearH?si=sy0X9tMcSNumk4ym-VZ9LQDon't forget to subscribe, rate, and review the show on Spotify, IHeart, Apple Podcast, and YouTube. Your feedback helps us inspire more listeners like you!Get your copy of the Gator Scales Journal on Amazonhttps://www.amazon.com/Gator-Scales-Journal-Jason-Branch/dp/B0DPXLXZWCGator Talk: Every Friday via Zoom at 9am PST/12pm EST  Join the conversation every Friday starting today on The 3 Parallels Podcast Post Show Q&A Session called Gator Talk.When: Every Friday Where: Battlecat Studios (Zoom)Zoom Link: https://alliant.zoom.us/j/4044362540Meeting ID:404-436-2540Time: 9:00am PST/ 12:00pm EST