The Pain Olympics: How Ranking Wounds Kills Intimacy

30/09/2025 1h 12min
The Pain Olympics: How Ranking Wounds Kills Intimacy

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Episode Synopsis

Couples can create an unconscious "pain and injustice hierarchy" due to a combination of psychological biases, emotional coping mechanisms, and communication failures. This toxic dynamic occurs when partners compete over who is suffering more, invalidating each other's feelings and turning conflict into a win-or-lose battle.