Listen "Don’t decenter them, Decenter Yourself!"
Episode Synopsis
In contemporary discourse surrounding relationships, there's a growing emphasis on the need for individuals—particularly women—to decenter men, and vice versa. However, this focus on shifting the relational center may obscure a more profound issue: the necessity of decentering oneself and, ultimately, the ego. Engaging in this self-reflective process opens pathways to healthier relationships and a more profound understanding of connection. #### Defining the Self To explore the idea of decentering, we first must define what we mean by the "Self." According to Jungian philosophy, the Self is "the whole personality," encompassing both conscious and unconscious elements. Jiddu Krishnamurti elaborates on this by illustrating how the “self” becomes entangled with physical form and personal characteristics, often identified through thoughts and possessions. This understanding of self as distinct from the collective human experience can be beneficial for individual autonomy but presents challenges in the context of relationships, which require a more interdependent "we" perspective.
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