The Dirty Dozen Words That Destroy Your Message

28/11/2025 14 min Episodio 287
The Dirty Dozen Words That Destroy Your Message

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Episode Synopsis

12 Words and Phrases That Sabotage Your Communication
Communication Tips from George Torok
Episode 283
In this episode we explore:


why vague words prevent listeners from seeing what you mean


how double negatives create confusion and weaken your intent


where emotional trigger words derail your message


how insulting phrases show unintended arrogance


why self-diminishing language lowers your authority


how dishonest openers destroy trust


why clichés signal lazy thinking


when jargon works and when it alienates people


how slang phrases degrade the message


why absolutes distort meaning


how weak adverbs dilute clarity


how filler words clutter your message and add noise


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George Torok is known as The Speech Coach for Executives. He helps business leaders speak with more confidence, clarity and consiness.
Learn more about communication coaching with George at https://speechcoachforexecutives.com/
Arrange for weekly presentations tips at https://toroktips.com/
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Key Learning Points from George


eliminate vague words like “stuff” and “things” because they communicate nothing


avoid double negatives which confuse listeners and weaken your intent


beware emotional trigger words that create unintended reactions


drop insulting phrases that imply superiority over your audience


stop using self-diminishing phrases that reduce your credibility


remove dishonest or insincere qualifiers that signal lack of authenticity


avoid clichés that show lazy thinking and add no value


use technical jargon only with those who understand it


remove slang terms that degrade your message and your audience


limit absolutes, which are usually inaccurate exaggerations


avoid weak adverbs like “very,” “really,” and “pretty”


eliminate filler words that clutter your message and reduce clarity


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Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
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George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
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