Send us a textParenting today can feel like being in a tornado or holding back a storm brewing in the background —graphic headlines on every feed, smartphones in every pocket, and a culture that treats faith as a long-lost relic of an age gone by. We invited Dr. Ray Guarendi—clinical psychologist, EWTN host, and father of ten adopted children—to help us navigate the chaos with clear judgment, deep faith, and steady authority. The result is a candid, practical roadmap for raising resilient kids in a world that tests every boundary.We start with the hard question: how do we help children process violence they may see online, specifically news of recent school shooting at Annunciation Church in Minnesota and the targeted killing of prominent debater and podcaster Charlie Kirk? Dr. Ray shares age-specific guidance for shielding younger kids and engaging teens through thoughtful questions that surface doubts, fears, and assumptions. From there, we dismantle the “safety as a reason for smartphones" myth that may be used by some people, with the flip-phone test, then rebuild a practical path of parenthood: privileges earned through trustworthiness, strong filters, paired devices, and limited apps. You’ll hear why consistency matters more than speeches, and how to replace arguments with calm consequences that work—like the blackout method that ends endless negotiations.We also confront the myth that high standards cause rebellion. Standards give direction; love must always be accompanied with discipline. Dr. Ray shows how authority, delivered with affection, keeps homes peaceful and frees room for joy and humour. (Dr. Ray's got jokes, folks, lol) He opens up about adopting without boundaries, relying on grace, and finding laughter in the mess. We close with hope for parents whose older kids have drifted from the faith. Even Christ, perfect in love, was rejected by many; your job is to witness, pray, and keep the light on. The seeds you planted can still bear fruit when the world’s promises fall flat.If you’re ready to parent with courage—setting firm boundaries, cultivating daily prayer, and guiding your kids through a noisy culture—this conversation will steady your steps. Listen, share with a friend who needs backup, and subscribe for more faith-filled, practical episodes. Your calm conviction is the compass your family needs.A Big "Thank you" to Dr. Ray Guarendi and Taylor Wilson! Wishing you and our American sisters and brothers a Blessed Thanksgiving Week!!!For Dr. Ray Guarendi's books, radio and TV episodes, and speaking engagements, please visit:https://www.drray.comHe is also on social media: YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@dr.rayguarendiFacebook:https://www.facebook.com/Dr.RayGuarendi/Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/dr.rayguarendi/X/Twitter:https://x.com/drrayguarendiSupport the showTo reach Veil + Armour, please visit:https://veilandarmour.comhttps://www.youtube.com/@veilandarmourhttps://www.x.com/@sheilanonatohttps://www.sheilanonato.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/@veilandarmourWhat resonated with you the most about this episode? Feel free to email us and let us know!Email: [email protected] our podcast helped you in some way, or could help someone else, kindly share our podcast with a friend!

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