Why do we keep having the same fight?It can feel frustrating when the same arguments keep coming up. But conflict is not the problem. It is how we handle it that makes the difference. Research shows that most relationship conflicts are ongoing, yet avoiding them only builds resentment. The good news is that conflict, when managed well, can actually strengthen trust and connection.I am Marie Vakakis, a therapist, mental health and relationships educator. In this episode, I explore why conflict is normal, how small miscommunications can turn into bigger issues, and how curiosity, empathy and repair can help you navigate difficult conversations with your partner.Key takeawaysConflict is a normal and healthy part of relationshipsAvoiding difficult conversations does not make issues disappearSeventy percent of relationship conflicts are ongoing and unsolvableHow you approach conflict shapes trust and connectionRepairing after a disagreement is more important than never fightingWords, tone and active listening all play a role in resolving tensionSome people argue to be right, others to connect or feel in controlAsking questions with curiosity can lead to deeper understandingResources• Gottman Institute research on conflict in relationships – www.gottman.comIf this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who might find it helpful. I would love to hear your thoughts, so reach out and let me know what stood out to you.Connected Teens https://marievakakis.com.au/connected-teens/Connect with Marie https://thetherapyhub.com.au/ https://marievakakis.com.au/ https://www.instagram.com/marievakakis/Submit a question to the Podcasthttps://forms.gle/nvNQyw9gJXMNnveY6

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