Episode 22 - Truth, Lies and Candor

20/04/2022 32 min Temporada 1 Episodio 22
Episode 22 - Truth, Lies and Candor

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Truth,, Lies and Candor Welcome to the Uncommon Communicator podcast, your host James Gable and Brandon Thompson are here to bring enlightenment to the topic of communication. It takes a lot of truth to gain trust but just one lie to lose it all 1.    Truth2.    Lies3.    CandorSpeaking the truth is one of the foundations of being an Uncommon Communicator. How we speak, recognize, and use it will determine the outcome. Truth and trust have a deep connection. In Hebrew, both stem from the same root Lies :Who Gets Lied to the Most1. Parents – 86% 2. Friends – 75% 3. Siblings – 73% 4. Spouses – 69%Where the Most Lies are Seen1. Resumes – 40% 2. Dating Site – 90%Everyday Lying – 6 lies are told daily by men to their partner, boss, or colleagues. – 3 lies are told daily by women to their partner, boss, or colleagues. – Lying is considered more common among phone calls than face to face chats. – 1 lie in every 7 is discovered as far as liars can tell. – A 10th of lies are just exaggerations and 60% were outright deceptions. – 70% of liars claim they would tell their lies again. – Americans tell an average of 11 lies a week.People are surprisingly bad at detecting lies. One study, for example, found that people were only able to accurately detect lying 54% of the time in a lab setting—hardly impressive when factoring in a 50% detection rate by pure chance alone.3 Tips for lie detection 1.     Being vague; offering few details.2.     Repeating questions before answering them.3.     Speaking in sentence fragments.4.     Failing to provide specific details when a story is challenged.5.     Grooming behaviors such as playing with hair or pressing fingers to lips.Candor:unreserved, honest, or sincere expression : FORTHRIGHTNESSor:the quality of being open and honest in expression; frankness.Often referred to as refreshing  Radical Candor by Kim Scott Radical: far-reaching or thorough.Candor: being open and honest in expression. In other words, radical candor is the quality of being thoroughly open and honest with others. When it comes to work and management, this means balancing care for your team members with helping them know where they need to improve.The uncommon communicator should use Candor, Speaking the truth in love to make those around us better. The moment of enlightenment from todayThe uncommon communicator should use Candor, Speaking the truth in love to make those around us better. Follow us on Instagram: The_Uncommon_CommunicatorFind our public group on Facebook: The Uncommon CommunicatorDon't forget about LinkedIn : The Uncommon Communicator PodcastBut most of all, email us your questions, concerns and recommendations to:[email protected], follow and send in your reviews to your favorite Podcast platformYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOJqHEhS1CtX3A4nztIBzdAInstagram: The_Uncommon_Communicator TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@theuncommoncommunicator Facebook: The Uncommon CommunicatorLinkedIn :https://www.linkedin.com/company/80960291/ Website : theuncommoncommunicator.com