Listen " The Myth of Perfection"
Episode Synopsis
Neil discusses the damaging myth of perfectionism and how it prevents people from taking action. He shares lessons from his 26 years in business, including experiences as a tutor, coach, and consultant for a major UK property investment company. He emphasises that success is a process of "sequential failure and constant improvement," not a perfect outcome from day one.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
Perfectionism causes inaction. The desire to be "100% solid gold" and "absolutely optimal" from the start often prevents people from even beginning.
Success is a process, not an endpoint. Life and growth are a series of failures, missteps, adjustments, and refinements.
Carefully curated success stories and highlight reels on social media and in celebrity culture hide the process of failure and growth that led to that success.
Embrace being awful. The first time you do something is likely to be the worst, but it's part of the process of getting better.
BEST MOMENTS
"So they faff around, divert themselves, and do more research that really only serves to shore up the illusion that they're actually taking action."
"You will fail. You will suck. You will be utterly, flap-wagglingly awful at first."
"All the evidence and all of my experience tells me that life is a sequence of failures, of missteps, adjustments, and refinements."
"Life is an endless and always imperfect game. Get over it."
VALUABLE RESOURCES
www.Neilcowmeadow.com
[email protected]
HOST BIO
Neil Cowmeadow is a maverick peripatetic guitar teacher from Telford with over 19 years’ experience in the business of helping people. Learn how to start, grow and love your business with Neil’s invaluable advice and tips without the buzzwords and BS!
This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/
KEY TAKEAWAYS
Perfectionism causes inaction. The desire to be "100% solid gold" and "absolutely optimal" from the start often prevents people from even beginning.
Success is a process, not an endpoint. Life and growth are a series of failures, missteps, adjustments, and refinements.
Carefully curated success stories and highlight reels on social media and in celebrity culture hide the process of failure and growth that led to that success.
Embrace being awful. The first time you do something is likely to be the worst, but it's part of the process of getting better.
BEST MOMENTS
"So they faff around, divert themselves, and do more research that really only serves to shore up the illusion that they're actually taking action."
"You will fail. You will suck. You will be utterly, flap-wagglingly awful at first."
"All the evidence and all of my experience tells me that life is a sequence of failures, of missteps, adjustments, and refinements."
"Life is an endless and always imperfect game. Get over it."
VALUABLE RESOURCES
www.Neilcowmeadow.com
[email protected]
HOST BIO
Neil Cowmeadow is a maverick peripatetic guitar teacher from Telford with over 19 years’ experience in the business of helping people. Learn how to start, grow and love your business with Neil’s invaluable advice and tips without the buzzwords and BS!
This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/
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