The Secret Formula for Relationship Success

28/09/2022 29 min Episodio 105
The Secret Formula for Relationship Success

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Many Men today struggle when it comes to long-term relationships. In fact, many men buy into the theme that long-term relationships like marriage are boring. This is a big lie and too many men are buying into it. This is because they don't understand the secret formula for relationships success:Consistent Investment  + Focused Attitudes = Relational SuccessMen were designed to assume responsibility in relationships. As men have given that up, it has hurt them and our society. Today we talk about some of the mindset shifts we have to have as men to produce successful long-term relationships.Seeing Relationships as Journeys, not RacesWhen we come with an attitude of exploration instead of winning, we see relationships as a constant adventureLet's look at some of the reasons as a strong case for MarriageThe fallout of Swipe CultureMaturing of Men in MarriageLong-Term Benefits of InvestingRelationships are journeysSeeing New Seasons as New Paths for GrowthLife is full of new seasons, but the benefits often come from our attitude in the seasonAs the seasons change you have the opportunity to discover new paths for growthThis is a natural design and gives us a natural variety of relationshipsYou have an opportunity at each season to forge a new path in your relationshipsMen caught in the short-term relationship cycle never get a chance to experience thisThis lack of relational growth hurts you as a manMen who don't get this just become older teenagersSeeing Fun as an Important Relational ComponentOne of the biggest pieces of advice I give to young men looking for a wife is to look for someone they can have fun withAnyone can have sex; however, can you have fun with someone apart from sex?The healthiest marriages are when a couple are also good friendsIt provides a stronger sense of security to the relationship and for times apartFun involves give and take in the coupleLook for a woman you enjoy