What would you consider a successful child? What if your child was a well-known child star making millions of dollars, is that a successful child? Well, if you look at the history of child stars, I would say probably not. Many of those kids get messed up. The problem is often not them but the parents living through them.As dads, we are responsible for raising successful kids, but how do we define that?On today’s show, we talk through what real success looks like for our kids and it has nothing to do with money or jobs but has to do with each child having a strong inward foundation.Security Focuses SuccessSuccess with security is something that kids can enjoy, but it doesn’t control themInsecure kids (and adults for that matter) “need” success to prove who they areSecurity helps success develop positive fruit and not mess a kid upSuccess without Security is DestructiveWhen kids need success, they will always feel insecure even when they have successThey will be willing to change who they are and what they do if they think it will make them more successful and accepted2 Keys to Building Security1) Let them be Secure in Your LoveYour love should never be conditional or based upon their behaviorLove is part of discipline and rulesLove speaks life into them and doesn’t manipulate or control them2) Let them be Secure in Your SupportSupport your kids in who they are more than what they doGive them opportunities and support them in their areas of interestDon’t live through them or make them love what you loveCommunicate that their activities or performances do not earn your loveYour goal is for them to be the best version of themselvesCHALLENGE:How are you building the security of your children?Are you success-based and teaching them that accomplishments are the purpose of life?Pick one area to build your kids up in and focus on itRESOURCES TO HELP YOU THRIVE AS A MAN========================Thriving Man Coaching Resources4D MODEL FREE PDFLearn about the 4 fundamentals of a Successful LifeDiscover OUR SPEAKING AND HOW WE HAVE EMPOWERED THOUSANDS OF PEOPLE ACROSS THE WORLD

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