Listen "Unsolicited Advice and Other Stories"
Episode Synopsis
I had a bit of a COVID scare last week. I purposely stayed off of social media until I knew the results,
On Saturday night, I found out I tested negative.
While most were supportive and upbeat, I had a handful of folks with unsolicited advice: I should be tested again because it was likely a false negative. Wow, way to throw cold water on you after an agonizing wait.
And while I know the advice came from a place of sincerity, that particular moment was not the time to hear this kind of news.
Eventually, I killed the post.
My unsolicited advice: think of how the other person will receive that news. Imagine you tell people you're cancer-free (not the most accurate analogy) and people pile on saying, "It's probably wrong and will come back."
A lesson for us all.
On Saturday night, I found out I tested negative.
While most were supportive and upbeat, I had a handful of folks with unsolicited advice: I should be tested again because it was likely a false negative. Wow, way to throw cold water on you after an agonizing wait.
And while I know the advice came from a place of sincerity, that particular moment was not the time to hear this kind of news.
Eventually, I killed the post.
My unsolicited advice: think of how the other person will receive that news. Imagine you tell people you're cancer-free (not the most accurate analogy) and people pile on saying, "It's probably wrong and will come back."
A lesson for us all.
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