“An offended friend is harder to win back than a fortified city. 
Arguments separate friends like a gate locked with bars” Proverb
Are you afraid to confront? Maybe you are on the opposite end and are too aggressive when it comes to confronting?

  
your effective confrontation says to them, 
"I'm not here to control you. I'm not here to disempower you. Actually, I encourage you to be mature by staying powerful during this confrontation so that your defenses don't come up & try to disempower me because of your fears. Let's both remain powerful during this confrontation"

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