This week, I chat with Pepper Kat about Western society's difficulty in embracing physicality and sexuality.  Pepper is an adult entertainer and podcaster who founded Design Your Dreamgirl to provide a space for all people to explore their desires with no judgment. Pepper and I discuss the spectrum of sexual fantasy, how shaming intimacy is the worst form of control, and why Sigmund Freud should probably be retired.REFERENCES:Pepper Kat’s website: https://www.pepperkat.com/Spicy Spectrum Podcast:  https://www.pepperkat.com/heartfelt-perspectivesFollow Pepper on TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@_pepper_kat_Follow Pepper on Bluesky:  https://bsky.app/profile/pepperkat.bsky.socialFollow Pepper on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/peppertheblackkat/Follow Pepper on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100091550276924Follow Pepper on X:  https://x.com/BlackKatPepper(00:00) - Opening credits

(00:37) - Show opening

(01:32) - Introducing Pepper Kat

(02:06) - From news producer to Design Your Dream Girl

(04:04) - Acknowledging desires reduces assault

(09:12) - Historical biases drive current views on sex

(13:48) - The spectrum of desire

(18:23) - Sex work keeps the world sane

(21:53) - Embrace your physicality

(26:59) - Voice as a method of affirmation

(29:16) - Intimacy takes many forms

(32:22) - Being confident neough not to lie to yourself

(36:45) - Why not just change social norms?

(41:29) - And it all comes down to control

(48:02) - Who can call Pepper Kat?

(50:47) - How to find Pepper Kat on the internet

(52:27) - Spicy Spectrum Podcast

(54:04) - Show closing

(55:48) - Closing credits


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