Understanding Relational Circuits in the Life Model

24/12/2025 26 min

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Episode Synopsis

In this episode, Alyssa and Monica dive deep into one of the most transformative concepts in the Life Model: relational circuits. Understanding this brain-based framework will completely change how you intervene in difficult moments with clients—and in your own life.In this episode, you'll learn:- What relational circuits are and the neuroscience behind them- How to recognize when relational circuits are offline (in yourself and your clients)- The 6-point relational circuits checklist you can use immediately- Why we act opposite of our true identity when relational circuits are off- The four indicators that relational circuits are ON (curiosity, appreciation, kindness, engagement)- What causes relational circuits to shut down (fatigue, hunger, attachment pain, trauma)- Practical tools to help clients get their relational circuits back online- Why quieting and appreciation are essential interventions in every session- How to stay relationally present with clients even when their story triggers you

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