Listen "You're Not Holding A Grudge. Your Brain Is Trying to Protect You"
Episode Synopsis
Keywordsneurodivergent, nervous system, forgiveness, emotional healing, ADHD, autism, childhood trauma, relationships, self-awareness, mental healthSummaryIn this episode of the Neurodivergent Lounge, Marie Martin explores the concept of the 'guard dog' of the nervous system, particularly in relation to neurodivergent individuals. She discusses how past experiences, especially from childhood, shape our emotional responses and the importance of recognizing and retraining our nervous systems. The conversation delves into the dynamics of relationships, the challenges of forgiveness, and the process of healing and self-awareness. Ultimately, it emphasizes the significance of honoring our truths and the wisdom our bodies hold.TakeawaysYou're not broken, you're not bitter.Forgiveness is a process of retraining the memory.Your guard dog remembers every time it was ignored.Childhood experiences shape adult emotional responses.It's important to listen to your body's signals.Two nervous systems can struggle to find safety together.Micro-forgiveness can start the healing process.Every moment of kindness helps retrain the guard dog.You can honor your truth even without closure.Healing involves recognizing the wisdom of your body.TitlesThe Guard Dog of the Nervous SystemChildhood Wounds and Adult ResponsesSound bites"Your guard dog is still keeping watch.""Two guard dogs barking at each other.""Micro-forgiveness, start with one thing."Chapters00:00 Understanding the Guard Dog of the Nervous System02:45 The Impact of Childhood Experiences on Adult Responses05:31 Navigating Relationships and Guard Dog Dynamics08:13 Steps to Rewire and Heal the Nervous System
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