Listen "Ep 15: Soft Skills: The Skills No One Teaches (but everyone needs)"
Episode Synopsis
Soft skills: everyone talks about them, few people define them, and even fewer get help building them. In this episode, Indra and Amanda dig into the nuanced world of interpersonal and emotional intelligence—the unspoken skills that make or break how we collaborate, lead, and show up at work.
From navigating conflict and giving feedback to facilitating meetings and reading the room, they explore why soft skills often surface in high-stakes moments... and why most training programs barely scratch the surface.
They share real talk on:
Whether soft skills are innate or learned
Why these abilities require practice, not just theory
How to start small and build confidence in safe spaces
And how to listen to podcasts, panels, or even reality shows with a soft-skills lens
This episode is a reminder that emotional intelligence isn’t fluff—it’s foundational. And like any skill, it can be trained, strengthened, and occasionally pulled in for emergency use.
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From navigating conflict and giving feedback to facilitating meetings and reading the room, they explore why soft skills often surface in high-stakes moments... and why most training programs barely scratch the surface.
They share real talk on:
Whether soft skills are innate or learned
Why these abilities require practice, not just theory
How to start small and build confidence in safe spaces
And how to listen to podcasts, panels, or even reality shows with a soft-skills lens
This episode is a reminder that emotional intelligence isn’t fluff—it’s foundational. And like any skill, it can be trained, strengthened, and occasionally pulled in for emergency use.
Useful Links:
The Messy Middle Matters Merch: shop.themessymiddlematters.com
The Messy Middle Matters Glossary: www.themessymiddlematters.com/glossary
Feedback for The Messy Middle Matters: www.themessymiddlematters.com/feedback
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