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Welcome to the Circuit of Success podcast! In this episode, host Brett Gilliland chats with Drew Maddux about "The Power of Planning and Preparation for Success." Learn why planning is crucial for success and get insights from Maddux's own life planning routine, where he revisits his goals annually. Discover the benefits of breaking down life into practical areas and making declarations to stay organized and motivated. Maddux encourages overcoming fears, staying motivated during tough times, and emphasizes the importance of a supportive circle. Explore the impact of positive habits and rituals on personal growth, including simple practices like morning routines. Don't miss Maddux's recommendations for productivity apps, YouTube videos, and his best college basketball moment. Join us on this journey to success and subscribe for more valuable insights on the Circuit of Success podcast! ??
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Brett Gilliland: Welcome to the Circuit of Success. I'm your host, Brett Gilliland, and today I've got Drew Maddux with me, Drew. How you doing? Speaker Drew Maddux: Brett, I'm doing great. It's an honor to be with you this morning. Thanks for having me on your show. Speaker Brett Gilliland: Absolutely. You were in, Nashville, Tennessee. Right? Speaker Drew Maddux: That is correct. I'm I'm a native, which is one of the few these days with with all the, the move ins, you know, from from all over the country, but yeah, I'm a generationally tied here. Our family's been here for many, many years and never left, the city. My wife's from here as well, So, yeah, this is this is home and always been home for us. Speaker Brett Gilliland: Well, you've seen some, significant growth, man. It's a it's an awesome city. And, obviously, you know that. There your whole life, but we love going down there. I'm only about four hours from there. I'm from Saint Louis, so we're, we're pretty close. Speaker Drew Maddux: Yeah. It it is. It's it's really good because I still think it's at the intersection of of what Nashville was and what it's becoming, and which is exciting of both senses, like the honoring of the past this innovation, this progression of all the newness. And so Yeah. We've certainly been the benefactors of a lot of new restaurants and new opportunities and new new ways to do life. And so we're very, very thankful for the the visionary leadership of our city. Speaker Brett Gilliland: Absolutely. Well, you were a, successful college basketball player there in Vanderbilt as well. So that's, that's awesome. I'm sure we'll talk some about that. And, you you've been in the business world, the coaching world, been in the TV world doing some sports commentating. You've done all sorts of stuff, and you've also wrote a book called Elevated, which is a motivational book on being the best version of you. But before we get started though, Drew, can you, what I always like to do with people is kinda what's the backstory? What's made you the man you are today? You don't just wake up and do all the stuff you've done. So if you can share some of that, that would be great. Speaker Drew Maddux: Yeah. Thanks. Thanks, Brett, for allowing me to do that. It's it really does begin with, I have incredible parents. I was a son first. I'm the middle of three. My parents were incredible. They were life giving. They were supportive. They were encouraging. Gilliland they were great facilitators for us to dream big and and help support us in the pursuing of what those dreams were. One of the things that I wanted to do when I was little, when I was five years old, my kindergarten teacher asked, what do you wanna be when you grow Gilliland I drew myself in a Vanderbilt basketball uniform, and that picture set my mirror my entire life. And the reason why I was so specific and so intentional as it relates to playing basketball, Vanderbilt was, my father and my grandfather both played basketball at Vanderbilt, and, it was just Other people told stories at bedtime of of other legendary full heroes. My dad told stories of these legendary Vanderbilt basketball players. And so it just was so real in our family, that that's just what I wanted to do. And so I worked like crazy my entire life in the pursuing of that dream. So it helps shape everything in terms of, my disciplines, my behaviors in the classroom, decisions I made, how I treated my body, and then just, the diligence of what it means to chase after a dream with everything that you had. I was blessed to be able to do that. I grew up here in high school. Had a great high school career, committed to Vanderbelt as a freshman in high school. And so I knew that's what I wanted to do. So when Eddie Fogler offered that scholarship, I was like, yes. I know that's what I wanna do. And so was blessed to be able to do that, played here in Nashville, my my entire life. My whole family lives here. So it became a big family reunion every single night we played. It was just a great, great connector of a shared experience for our Gilliland our friends. Met my wife, myself, more year. At Vanderbilt. We got engaged by senior year. We just celebrated twenty five years of marriage, and so she is my best friend. She is my my inspiration. And she is my biggest cheerleader biggest, encouragement in my life. And so, we have an incredible love story. That I'm so thankful for for the way she's impacted my life. So I'm a husband next. And then thirdly, I'm a dad. So I have a, five children. We have three daughters biologically. And in two thousand ten, December fifteenth, which were coming up on an anniversary of what that means. We adopted two little boys from Uganda. They're not little anymore. They're now big sixteen year old boys, and, they completed our family. And so we have five children. So I was a son as a husband, and now, you know, being able to be a father as well. And so really through those three lens, that's the paradigm by which you know, life works for me and life flows. And then everything else just kind of flows out of that. But, really, those are the three aspects of my life that I'm the most focused on. And I believe if I'm pursuing everything that I have within those three constructs, that, you know, the byproduct will be the opportunity to be excellent as a coach, to be excellent as a speaker, to be excellent as a broadcaster. To be excellent as a business person entrepreneur. All the other things will flow out of that and we'll be icing on the cake if I'm pursuing the the three loves of my life the most of of of being a son, of being a husband, and being a father. Speaker Brett Gilliland: Love it. That's a great explanation, man. I think I appreciate you sharing that, Drew. So let let's talk about that. You're five years old. You're talking about dreams and aspirations. And you said I wanna be a Vandy basketball player, and it comes true. So I'm curious on what you think about now as you've gone through Gilliland you've taught your Gilliland you also coaching Gilliland you're speaking, how important is it to dream and think big? And what I heard in that story was you didn't just write it down and put it in your top drawer of of your desk. You put it on your mirror. Right? So how important is that when we're when we're giving some advice to people today, listen to this? Speaker Drew Maddux: Yeah. I I I think it's crucial. It really does begin there. It's it's what do you see? You you will become what you see. And, you know, without vision, there's nothing that's ever been created, invented, or accomplish without first the site to see it. And so I believe it does start with, you know, if you wanna be excellent at anything, that you wanna accomplish or do or see fulfillment or even joy, you gotta see it first. And I can give you so many examples of that, but certainly in my life, I'm a speaking walking testimony of what that means to see at first. Really then it moves into second phase of it. So as you see it, as you visualize it, it really does move into the preparation. You know, how are you preparing? Does your preparation align with the result that you hope for because so many times where, you know, you'll you'll when it gets to game time or you get into the arena, Oh, okay. I'm gonna flick on the switch. I'm gonna turn it on in that moment, but the habits have not been consistent enough in a direct alignment with the result that you hope for. So as you see it, it moves into the planning and the preparation of it. So in order that, you can then step in and do it. You know, so it's plan for it, and then you gotta go do it, and you gotta deliver it when greatness is required. And then the last piece of that is you gotta finish you gotta finish. And, you know, so many times we'll step in and you'll start to execute or you'll start to do something, but you can't finish. You can't complete it. You can't you see it all the way through. And so it really does begin with the sight to see it first. Are you preparing and planning and practicing in your process and the fulfillment of that site. Do you go and do you step into it and can you do it? And then lastly, do you complete it? Can you finish it all the way through? And I believe that's the stages of everything, but it does begin with what do you see first? Speaker Brett Gilliland: Yeah. It's it's, so it's funny when I was twenty two, twenty three years old starting in my business. I'm in a well management space. I had all my goals, you know, framed, like, literally in a nice picture frame right next to the phone because what did I have to do as a young financial advisor? I had to pick up phone forty, fifty, sixty, hundred times a day to try to get clients. Right? And I knew when when people would tell me no or they would dodge my calls, all the stuff when I could read what was important to me and why I was doing it, it made it easier. Right? So my question there is now, you know, we're both I think you're close to my age.
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Brett Gilliland: Welcome to the Circuit of Success. I'm your host, Brett Gilliland, and today I've got Drew Maddux with me, Drew. How you doing? Speaker Drew Maddux: Brett, I'm doing great. It's an honor to be with you this morning. Thanks for having me on your show. Speaker Brett Gilliland: Absolutely. You were in, Nashville, Tennessee. Right? Speaker Drew Maddux: That is correct. I'm I'm a native, which is one of the few these days with with all the, the move ins, you know, from from all over the country, but yeah, I'm a generationally tied here. Our family's been here for many, many years and never left, the city. My wife's from here as well, So, yeah, this is this is home and always been home for us. Speaker Brett Gilliland: Well, you've seen some, significant growth, man. It's a it's an awesome city. And, obviously, you know that. There your whole life, but we love going down there. I'm only about four hours from there. I'm from Saint Louis, so we're, we're pretty close. Speaker Drew Maddux: Yeah. It it is. It's it's really good because I still think it's at the intersection of of what Nashville was and what it's becoming, and which is exciting of both senses, like the honoring of the past this innovation, this progression of all the newness. And so Yeah. We've certainly been the benefactors of a lot of new restaurants and new opportunities and new new ways to do life. And so we're very, very thankful for the the visionary leadership of our city. Speaker Brett Gilliland: Absolutely. Well, you were a, successful college basketball player there in Vanderbilt as well. So that's, that's awesome. I'm sure we'll talk some about that. And, you you've been in the business world, the coaching world, been in the TV world doing some sports commentating. You've done all sorts of stuff, and you've also wrote a book called Elevated, which is a motivational book on being the best version of you. But before we get started though, Drew, can you, what I always like to do with people is kinda what's the backstory? What's made you the man you are today? You don't just wake up and do all the stuff you've done. So if you can share some of that, that would be great. Speaker Drew Maddux: Yeah. Thanks. Thanks, Brett, for allowing me to do that. It's it really does begin with, I have incredible parents. I was a son first. I'm the middle of three. My parents were incredible. They were life giving. They were supportive. They were encouraging. Gilliland they were great facilitators for us to dream big and and help support us in the pursuing of what those dreams were. One of the things that I wanted to do when I was little, when I was five years old, my kindergarten teacher asked, what do you wanna be when you grow Gilliland I drew myself in a Vanderbilt basketball uniform, and that picture set my mirror my entire life. And the reason why I was so specific and so intentional as it relates to playing basketball, Vanderbilt was, my father and my grandfather both played basketball at Vanderbilt, and, it was just Other people told stories at bedtime of of other legendary full heroes. My dad told stories of these legendary Vanderbilt basketball players. And so it just was so real in our family, that that's just what I wanted to do. And so I worked like crazy my entire life in the pursuing of that dream. So it helps shape everything in terms of, my disciplines, my behaviors in the classroom, decisions I made, how I treated my body, and then just, the diligence of what it means to chase after a dream with everything that you had. I was blessed to be able to do that. I grew up here in high school. Had a great high school career, committed to Vanderbelt as a freshman in high school. And so I knew that's what I wanted to do. So when Eddie Fogler offered that scholarship, I was like, yes. I know that's what I wanna do. And so was blessed to be able to do that, played here in Nashville, my my entire life. My whole family lives here. So it became a big family reunion every single night we played. It was just a great, great connector of a shared experience for our Gilliland our friends. Met my wife, myself, more year. At Vanderbilt. We got engaged by senior year. We just celebrated twenty five years of marriage, and so she is my best friend. She is my my inspiration. And she is my biggest cheerleader biggest, encouragement in my life. And so, we have an incredible love story. That I'm so thankful for for the way she's impacted my life. So I'm a husband next. And then thirdly, I'm a dad. So I have a, five children. We have three daughters biologically. And in two thousand ten, December fifteenth, which were coming up on an anniversary of what that means. We adopted two little boys from Uganda. They're not little anymore. They're now big sixteen year old boys, and, they completed our family. And so we have five children. So I was a son as a husband, and now, you know, being able to be a father as well. And so really through those three lens, that's the paradigm by which you know, life works for me and life flows. And then everything else just kind of flows out of that. But, really, those are the three aspects of my life that I'm the most focused on. And I believe if I'm pursuing everything that I have within those three constructs, that, you know, the byproduct will be the opportunity to be excellent as a coach, to be excellent as a speaker, to be excellent as a broadcaster. To be excellent as a business person entrepreneur. All the other things will flow out of that and we'll be icing on the cake if I'm pursuing the the three loves of my life the most of of of being a son, of being a husband, and being a father. Speaker Brett Gilliland: Love it. That's a great explanation, man. I think I appreciate you sharing that, Drew. So let let's talk about that. You're five years old. You're talking about dreams and aspirations. And you said I wanna be a Vandy basketball player, and it comes true. So I'm curious on what you think about now as you've gone through Gilliland you've taught your Gilliland you also coaching Gilliland you're speaking, how important is it to dream and think big? And what I heard in that story was you didn't just write it down and put it in your top drawer of of your desk. You put it on your mirror. Right? So how important is that when we're when we're giving some advice to people today, listen to this? Speaker Drew Maddux: Yeah. I I I think it's crucial. It really does begin there. It's it's what do you see? You you will become what you see. And, you know, without vision, there's nothing that's ever been created, invented, or accomplish without first the site to see it. And so I believe it does start with, you know, if you wanna be excellent at anything, that you wanna accomplish or do or see fulfillment or even joy, you gotta see it first. And I can give you so many examples of that, but certainly in my life, I'm a speaking walking testimony of what that means to see at first. Really then it moves into second phase of it. So as you see it, as you visualize it, it really does move into the preparation. You know, how are you preparing? Does your preparation align with the result that you hope for because so many times where, you know, you'll you'll when it gets to game time or you get into the arena, Oh, okay. I'm gonna flick on the switch. I'm gonna turn it on in that moment, but the habits have not been consistent enough in a direct alignment with the result that you hope for. So as you see it, it moves into the planning and the preparation of it. So in order that, you can then step in and do it. You know, so it's plan for it, and then you gotta go do it, and you gotta deliver it when greatness is required. And then the last piece of that is you gotta finish you gotta finish. And, you know, so many times we'll step in and you'll start to execute or you'll start to do something, but you can't finish. You can't complete it. You can't you see it all the way through. And so it really does begin with the sight to see it first. Are you preparing and planning and practicing in your process and the fulfillment of that site. Do you go and do you step into it and can you do it? And then lastly, do you complete it? Can you finish it all the way through? And I believe that's the stages of everything, but it does begin with what do you see first? Speaker Brett Gilliland: Yeah. It's it's, so it's funny when I was twenty two, twenty three years old starting in my business. I'm in a well management space. I had all my goals, you know, framed, like, literally in a nice picture frame right next to the phone because what did I have to do as a young financial advisor? I had to pick up phone forty, fifty, sixty, hundred times a day to try to get clients. Right? And I knew when when people would tell me no or they would dodge my calls, all the stuff when I could read what was important to me and why I was doing it, it made it easier. Right? So my question there is now, you know, we're both I think you're close to my age.
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