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Episode Synopsis
Justin Su’a is the Head of Mental Performance for the Tampa Bay Rays of Major League Baseball. He works with players to enhance their mental performance to perform under enormous pressure. He has worked for the Boston Red Sox as well as the NFL’s Cleveland Browns. He is the author of two books,“Parent Pep Talks” and “Mentally Tough Teens”
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A2LDhBAxMnk
All right. Welcome to the Circle of Success. I'm your host, Brett Gilland. Today I've got Justin Su'a with me. Justin. How you doing, man?
Justin Su'a
Doing great, Brett. You're doing great. Looking forward to the conversation.
Brett Gilliland
Awesome. Me as well, man. It is. Uh, we were talking before we hit record here, September 11th, 2018 was the last time you and I spoke five plus years ago. I can't, I, I can't believe it's been that long.
Justin Su'a
It's, it's incredible. Yeah. It seemed like, uh, yeah. I remember, I remember our last conversation vividly.
Brett Gilliland
Yes, it was, uh, I, one of my favorite quotes that I've done this, see, you're the 316th interview I've done now, and, uh, for some reason, one of the quotes you said is "dominate the level you're at."
And, uh, I may be paraphrasing there, but dominate the level you're at. Has really stuck with me and even a couple of my buddies. We've, we've continued to talk about it. Is no matter where you're at in life, man, just, just dominate that area. It may not be exactly where you're going or want to be going, but if you're there, choose to be there and dominate it.
So I'm gonna kick off with that man. Is, is your thoughts on that when you hear me say that from five plus years ago?
Justin Su'a
It's, it's really neat. I, I, I like the fact that you said that it's a really good reminder because I think there are certain principles that hold true. They're universal and they're timeless. And I think that is one in particular that is a, just a simple reminder, uh, number one, dominate being, being, doing the best that you possibly can wherever you are. I think we still, even still, we live in a world where we're looking ahead. We are, we are not where our feet are, we are not fully present. And I think reminding ourselves to dominate the level we're at is to be fully focused and go all in on where you currently are and letting the outcome and the results take care of themselves. And doors will open to the degree that you put forth your best effort in the here and now.
So I'm, I'm still, uh, I'll still double down on that, uh, on that principle. And I, and I still believe it even five years later.
Brett Gilliland
Yeah. It's so true, man. It's, uh, and, and you talk about a lot as well as control the controllables. So let's, let's talk about that. When you, when you hear me say control the controllables, we've all heard it, we've read it in books, you hear it a million times from people, but what does that mean to you and how do you help people with that?
Justin Su'a
Yeah, I think it's, it's a simple principle, but it's, it's hard to execute at times. Uh, controlling the controlling controllables it starts with identifying, what can I control? I, I think asking yourself that question, looking in the mirror and saying, okay, the nature of my situation is very difficult. Uh, it's it being able to look at the brutal facts of whatever you're going through and saying, okay, what can I control of this situation. Now, with that, with that, it's also understanding and identifying the things you cannot control.
Now the things you try to control, but can't, end up controlling you. There's a phrase that you, you hear a lot of people say is you can control your thoughts, you can control your, uh, you can control your thoughts. We'll just, we'll just stop with that. Sometimes someone might not feel they can control their thoughts.
Sometimes they might not feel they can control their emotions because of the nature of whatever they're going through. And I think it's very important to understand that, you know what? My mind is screaming right now. I can't control my attention. I can't control my thoughts. So instead of beating up on yourself over these things that you should control to be able to say, you know what, right now I can't control my thoughts. Okay, what can I control? What can I, what, what can I grab a hold of? And sometimes it might be a very small hold on this tiny little corner of, of, of things that you can control and go all in on that. Another thing to identify as well is there are uncontrollable factors that are contributing to your success or your failure.
It is very important to identify what those are as well. A lot of times we'll succeed. Let's say you have a good week, you have a good quarter, you have a good year. You need to identify and say, okay, what were things that contributed to my success that I had absolutely no control over?
Brett Gilliland
Yeah.
Justin Su'a
Because it keeps us humble. It keeps us grounded. But also when we fail and when we struggle, it's also important to ask, okay, what were things that I could not control that contributed to my failures. That contributed, that contributed to my struggles to help you realize that, hey, there were things outside of my control that I couldn't control, I can't beat up on myself about because they were complete uncontrollable factors that I had nothing to do with.
Brett Gilliland
Yeah. And, and, uh, I think, you know, when I look back, I mean, last time we chatted again five plus years ago, you're with the Boston Red Sox, and I believe maybe the Cleveland Browns, uh, now with the Tampa Bay Rays, you guys made the playoffs this year. That's good. Uh, so you're, you're the, you're the director, I guess the head of mental performance, uh, for the whole team.
And so when you're, when you're with guys like that day in and day out, man, you're with the best, right? The best baseball players in the world. Well, what are you seeing from them? Based on everything we're talking about, dominate the level you're at control, the controllables, all these things. What are you seeing that you can just sit back in the dugout and watch that and kind of almost in awe saying "This is happening day in and day out."
Justin Su'a
What I, I like that phrase that you said. What I'm in awe of is anytime you are around elite performers in any industry or any domain, and I'll speak specifically about the players who I get to see day in and day out, is number one is this, is this feeling that they're not only pursuing greatness, but you're all, uh, you're not this feeling that you're not only chasing, but you're being chased at the same.
It's this constant angst of I wanna be great, but I know people are right behind me trying to be great as well.
Brett Gilliland
Right.
Justin Su'a
And when you are surrounded by people who are competing for the same thing, everyone has the goal to win the World Series. That's the thing about goal setting. Everyone wants to be great in this level. Everyone wants to win. Okay? So what are the things that you're doing? What are the behaviors that you're setting up for yourselves, what are the systems, what are the habits that you wanna be deliberate with that will... where the, to, to the degree where the byproduct is success. And I think this group in particular, this, this level of performer, they're, yes, they are pursuing outcomes, but they're dogged and rig and rigid and relentless on their pursuit of creating high performance habits. And because they know, as they solidify their inputs, as they solidify those controllable habits, the output or the results will take care of themselves. And it has been neat to watch them have a front row seat, to watch them embrace the boredom of consistency away from the cameras away from away from the crowd. That is, that is huge.
Brett Gilliland
I mean, and you're seeing that, right? Because I mean, you think about you get there, say the game's at 7:10, I mean, you're getting there what, one o'clock maybe even before that?
Justin Su'a
Yes. Even before that. Even before that.
Brett Gilliland
Yeah. So to your point, is that, that's the boring, mundane type stuff, isn't it? I mean that you show up, it's not the same locker room every time, but in a sense it's right square room, bathroom, some weights, little batting cage. It's the same stuff every single day. But yet these guys show up even on days they don't want to. and, and they do it. So do you find, I'm, cause I'm fascinated with this stuff. Do you find that this thing is just so ingrained in them that they don't need to go to a journal or a, you know, a workbook type thing? Or are they taking notes on their selves, on each other, on other things? Like what are they doing that we can apply, what they're doing in the locker room, that we can apply to the boardroom at work?
Justin Su'a
I think you brought up a really good point. I think they, not everybody, and I don't, I don't want to say that all athletes are the same.
Brett Gilliland
Sure.
Justin Su'a
All, uh, performers are meditating. All of them are journaling. Some are, some aren't. Some try, some don't. Some meditate, some don't. Uh, but what is, but what I have noticed is some are willing to look in the mirror and say, okay, what do I need to improve and what am I, and they're willing to make adjustments in order to approve in those outcomes. So for example, yes, there are some athletes who are absolutely journaling. Uh, there are some athletes who are meditating and they are very deliberate on their meditative practice.
There are some who, rather than journaling, they like to talk about it, they want to self-reflect at the end of their game or at the end of the series or at the end of the series, uh, at the end of the month to be able to calibrate and recalibrate where they're at to see their trajectory. Uh, there are some who practice visual visualization.
There are some who don't.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A2LDhBAxMnk
All right. Welcome to the Circle of Success. I'm your host, Brett Gilland. Today I've got Justin Su'a with me. Justin. How you doing, man?
Justin Su'a
Doing great, Brett. You're doing great. Looking forward to the conversation.
Brett Gilliland
Awesome. Me as well, man. It is. Uh, we were talking before we hit record here, September 11th, 2018 was the last time you and I spoke five plus years ago. I can't, I, I can't believe it's been that long.
Justin Su'a
It's, it's incredible. Yeah. It seemed like, uh, yeah. I remember, I remember our last conversation vividly.
Brett Gilliland
Yes, it was, uh, I, one of my favorite quotes that I've done this, see, you're the 316th interview I've done now, and, uh, for some reason, one of the quotes you said is "dominate the level you're at."
And, uh, I may be paraphrasing there, but dominate the level you're at. Has really stuck with me and even a couple of my buddies. We've, we've continued to talk about it. Is no matter where you're at in life, man, just, just dominate that area. It may not be exactly where you're going or want to be going, but if you're there, choose to be there and dominate it.
So I'm gonna kick off with that man. Is, is your thoughts on that when you hear me say that from five plus years ago?
Justin Su'a
It's, it's really neat. I, I, I like the fact that you said that it's a really good reminder because I think there are certain principles that hold true. They're universal and they're timeless. And I think that is one in particular that is a, just a simple reminder, uh, number one, dominate being, being, doing the best that you possibly can wherever you are. I think we still, even still, we live in a world where we're looking ahead. We are, we are not where our feet are, we are not fully present. And I think reminding ourselves to dominate the level we're at is to be fully focused and go all in on where you currently are and letting the outcome and the results take care of themselves. And doors will open to the degree that you put forth your best effort in the here and now.
So I'm, I'm still, uh, I'll still double down on that, uh, on that principle. And I, and I still believe it even five years later.
Brett Gilliland
Yeah. It's so true, man. It's, uh, and, and you talk about a lot as well as control the controllables. So let's, let's talk about that. When you, when you hear me say control the controllables, we've all heard it, we've read it in books, you hear it a million times from people, but what does that mean to you and how do you help people with that?
Justin Su'a
Yeah, I think it's, it's a simple principle, but it's, it's hard to execute at times. Uh, controlling the controlling controllables it starts with identifying, what can I control? I, I think asking yourself that question, looking in the mirror and saying, okay, the nature of my situation is very difficult. Uh, it's it being able to look at the brutal facts of whatever you're going through and saying, okay, what can I control of this situation. Now, with that, with that, it's also understanding and identifying the things you cannot control.
Now the things you try to control, but can't, end up controlling you. There's a phrase that you, you hear a lot of people say is you can control your thoughts, you can control your, uh, you can control your thoughts. We'll just, we'll just stop with that. Sometimes someone might not feel they can control their thoughts.
Sometimes they might not feel they can control their emotions because of the nature of whatever they're going through. And I think it's very important to understand that, you know what? My mind is screaming right now. I can't control my attention. I can't control my thoughts. So instead of beating up on yourself over these things that you should control to be able to say, you know what, right now I can't control my thoughts. Okay, what can I control? What can I, what, what can I grab a hold of? And sometimes it might be a very small hold on this tiny little corner of, of, of things that you can control and go all in on that. Another thing to identify as well is there are uncontrollable factors that are contributing to your success or your failure.
It is very important to identify what those are as well. A lot of times we'll succeed. Let's say you have a good week, you have a good quarter, you have a good year. You need to identify and say, okay, what were things that contributed to my success that I had absolutely no control over?
Brett Gilliland
Yeah.
Justin Su'a
Because it keeps us humble. It keeps us grounded. But also when we fail and when we struggle, it's also important to ask, okay, what were things that I could not control that contributed to my failures. That contributed, that contributed to my struggles to help you realize that, hey, there were things outside of my control that I couldn't control, I can't beat up on myself about because they were complete uncontrollable factors that I had nothing to do with.
Brett Gilliland
Yeah. And, and, uh, I think, you know, when I look back, I mean, last time we chatted again five plus years ago, you're with the Boston Red Sox, and I believe maybe the Cleveland Browns, uh, now with the Tampa Bay Rays, you guys made the playoffs this year. That's good. Uh, so you're, you're the, you're the director, I guess the head of mental performance, uh, for the whole team.
And so when you're, when you're with guys like that day in and day out, man, you're with the best, right? The best baseball players in the world. Well, what are you seeing from them? Based on everything we're talking about, dominate the level you're at control, the controllables, all these things. What are you seeing that you can just sit back in the dugout and watch that and kind of almost in awe saying "This is happening day in and day out."
Justin Su'a
What I, I like that phrase that you said. What I'm in awe of is anytime you are around elite performers in any industry or any domain, and I'll speak specifically about the players who I get to see day in and day out, is number one is this, is this feeling that they're not only pursuing greatness, but you're all, uh, you're not this feeling that you're not only chasing, but you're being chased at the same.
It's this constant angst of I wanna be great, but I know people are right behind me trying to be great as well.
Brett Gilliland
Right.
Justin Su'a
And when you are surrounded by people who are competing for the same thing, everyone has the goal to win the World Series. That's the thing about goal setting. Everyone wants to be great in this level. Everyone wants to win. Okay? So what are the things that you're doing? What are the behaviors that you're setting up for yourselves, what are the systems, what are the habits that you wanna be deliberate with that will... where the, to, to the degree where the byproduct is success. And I think this group in particular, this, this level of performer, they're, yes, they are pursuing outcomes, but they're dogged and rig and rigid and relentless on their pursuit of creating high performance habits. And because they know, as they solidify their inputs, as they solidify those controllable habits, the output or the results will take care of themselves. And it has been neat to watch them have a front row seat, to watch them embrace the boredom of consistency away from the cameras away from away from the crowd. That is, that is huge.
Brett Gilliland
I mean, and you're seeing that, right? Because I mean, you think about you get there, say the game's at 7:10, I mean, you're getting there what, one o'clock maybe even before that?
Justin Su'a
Yes. Even before that. Even before that.
Brett Gilliland
Yeah. So to your point, is that, that's the boring, mundane type stuff, isn't it? I mean that you show up, it's not the same locker room every time, but in a sense it's right square room, bathroom, some weights, little batting cage. It's the same stuff every single day. But yet these guys show up even on days they don't want to. and, and they do it. So do you find, I'm, cause I'm fascinated with this stuff. Do you find that this thing is just so ingrained in them that they don't need to go to a journal or a, you know, a workbook type thing? Or are they taking notes on their selves, on each other, on other things? Like what are they doing that we can apply, what they're doing in the locker room, that we can apply to the boardroom at work?
Justin Su'a
I think you brought up a really good point. I think they, not everybody, and I don't, I don't want to say that all athletes are the same.
Brett Gilliland
Sure.
Justin Su'a
All, uh, performers are meditating. All of them are journaling. Some are, some aren't. Some try, some don't. Some meditate, some don't. Uh, but what is, but what I have noticed is some are willing to look in the mirror and say, okay, what do I need to improve and what am I, and they're willing to make adjustments in order to approve in those outcomes. So for example, yes, there are some athletes who are absolutely journaling. Uh, there are some athletes who are meditating and they are very deliberate on their meditative practice.
There are some who, rather than journaling, they like to talk about it, they want to self-reflect at the end of their game or at the end of the series or at the end of the series, uh, at the end of the month to be able to calibrate and recalibrate where they're at to see their trajectory. Uh, there are some who practice visual visualization.
There are some who don't.
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