7 Ways We’re Rude at Weddings Without Even Realizing It

06/11/2025 45 min
7 Ways We’re Rude at Weddings Without Even Realizing It

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SEGMENT 1: The 7 Sneaky Wedding Faux Pas #7 – Pointing Out Something That Went Wrong·        Explain how guests often mention mistakes (“That was crazy when the officiant messed up!”)·        Hosts’ reaction: empathize, joke about it, reinforce — the couple already knows!#6 – Taking Photos During the Ceremony·        J.R admits he was planning to take photos at Launa’s wedding·        Discuss why it’s considered rude: blocks photographer, ruins shots, distracts from moment·        Compare to filming concerts — “Be in the moment!”#5 – Oversharing During Toasts or Conversations·        Don’t tell embarrassing stories unless you know the couple’s cool with it·        Emphasize it’s their day, not your comedy set#4 – Requesting Songs from the DJ·        Host shares personal experience as a wedding DJ·        Explain how playlists are pre-planned by the couple·        Funny story: Grandpa requesting “Rhinestone Cowboy”·        Lesson: If the DJ says no, drop it#3 – Stealing Flowers or Decorations·        Don’t assume centerpieces are freebies unless told so·        “Ask before you take — they might have other plans!”#2 – Making a Spectacle·        Examples: proposing, getting too drunk, or upstaging on the dance floor·        Funny bit: “It’s not Dancing with the Stars, calm down.”·        Hosts share quick anecdotes or observations#1 – Monopolizing the Couple’s Time·        Don’t corner the bride/groom or hover at the head table·        Acknowledge they have to greet everyone·        Joke about “Edna who traveled a long way” not being the only guestSEGMENT 2: Listener Call-Ins — What’s Rude That People Don’t Realize? Caller 1 – Shannon: “Showing up hungover.”·        Hosts laugh, connect it to concern for Launa’s weddingCaller 2 – Jennifer: “RSVPing and not showing up.”·        Hosts discuss cost per head, emphasize how inconsiderate it isCaller 3 – Lisa: “Someone told the actual mother of the bride to move!”·        Hosts react in disbelief·        Discuss possible wedding crasher — fun, lighthearted exchangeSEGMENT 3: Wrap-Up & Reflection ·        Recap: “So those are the seven — plus a few extras from our listeners.”·        Reflect on personal takeaways:o   “Kevin, are you guilty of any of these?”o   “Not a dancer, not a photo-taker — I’m good!”·        Final thought: “Mind your own business, celebrate with love, and don’t be the story people tell later.”·        Tease follow-up episode: “After Launa’s wedding, we’ll see if we followed our own advice…”See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.