What if heartbreak doesn't have to be painful? What if it could even be enjoyable? In this episode, I share a transformative conversation I had with a friend who was holding back in relationships because she feared heartbreak. Through a simple but powerful exercise, she discovered that pain isn't an inherent quality of heartbreak itself—it comes from how we relate to it. When you learn to welcome heartbreak fully instead of resisting it, everything changes.







In this episode, we explore:




Why heartbreak feels painful and what's actually causing that pain (hint: it's not what you think)



The two-part exercise that reveals the true nature of heartbreak and transforms your experience of it



How resistance to heartbreak creates the very suffering we're trying to avoid



Why welcoming heartbreak fully can shift it from painful to spacious, even enjoyable



How your fear of heartbreak is keeping you from the deep, authentic connections you crave








Actionable Takeaways:




Practice the heartbreak exercise: Next time you feel heartbreak, try welcoming it fully into your body instead of resisting it—notice how the experience transforms.



Identify your resistance patterns: Pay attention to how you try to push away or suppress uncomfortable emotions, and experiment with allowing them instead.



Reframe heartbreak as growth: Start seeing heartbreak as what opens your heart wider and deepens your capacity for love and connection.








I'd love to hear from you. What was your experience doing the heartbreak exercise? Did you notice a shift when you stopped resisting? Share in our community or tag me on social.







If this episode transformed your perspective on heartbreak, share it with someone who needs to hear this message. Help them discover that heartbreak doesn't have to be something to fear.







And remember: may you be happy and do good, and may you be happy doing good.







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About Me:



I'm Dr. Filipe Rocha, founder of StarSoul School. I'm a Medical Doctor who has studied and practiced over 50 different modalities—from neuroscience and psychology to trauma healing, hypnotherapy, and coaching, to spirituality and Buddhism. But my real wisdom comes from walking this path myself. My mission is to help you walk your journey of healing, growth, and transformation with more success, ease, and joy.







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This isn't just another personal development podcast. I'm not walking my talk—I'm talking my walk. Everything I share comes from my own deep inner exploration and the integrated approach I've developed combining personal wisdom with proven modalities from around the world.







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What was your experience doing the heartbreak exercise? Did you notice a shift when you stopped resisting? What would change in your relationships if you weren't afraid of heartbreak? Drop a comment—I'd love to hear your reflections.







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