Send us a textThe Worst Marriage Value Ever: Why Chasing Happiness Destroys RelationshipsEpisode Description:What if the #1 value couples chase in marriage is actually destroying their relationships? This week, we confront a dangerous myth: "You get what you tolerate." While it’s true that tolerating bad behavior invites more of it, we reveal the deeper truth from Matthew 6:21: What you value is what you’ll ultimately have.We expose why making happiness your core value is relationship poison. Through raw stories (like the man who wanted a "goldfish" instead of a wife!), you’ll discover:Why demanding constant happiness makes you miserableHow avoiding "unhappy" work sabotages true intimacyWhy crisis moments (James 1:2-5) are often God’s pathway to growth, not signals to quitThe childish mindset that sees marriage as mere gratificationBut there’s hope! We introduce the 6 life-changing values that transformed our marriage and will anchor yours:Love of GodLove of Your SpouseHonestyFaithfulnessCompassion & ForgivenessHolinessLearn how to:Build your marriage "frame" with these non-negotiablesCultivate your relationship garden for lasting harvestReplace happiness-chasing with righteous indignation against what destroys loveBecome the couple who does the work rather than just wants the rewardStop tolerating emptiness and start building what lasts. Tune in to discover why values shape destiny—and how choosing the right ones unlocks the marriage God designed.Support the show

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