It is normal to face challenges in a relationship, but what happens when one, or both people, completely disconnects and thoughts turn to leaving? How do you know the right time to end a relationship?In this episode, divorce coach Dr. Sue Palmer-Conn joined us to discuss the challenging question of whether to stay or go, including common stress points and challenges couples face, how discernment counselling can help them make a decision, and why divorce or separation can change your life for the better. Chapters00:00 Introductions 03:07 What is discernment counselling? And how can it help a relationship?  03:43 The impact of losing connection 05:00 The limitations of marriage guidance 05:19 How does discernment counselling work? 09:09 What are common trigger points in relationships? 09:21 The different ways to disconnect 10:25 Making the decision to stay or go11:34 What are the three main outcomes of discernment counselling?12:30 Does it help make divorce more dignified?14:08 How long does the process take? 19:30 How do you keep communication in a relationship going? 22:15 How do you break a rut in a relationship? 25:00 The pressure of time on a relationship 27:00 The impact of children 29:10 Retirement and empty nesters30:00 Is the concept of marriage now outdated? 32:55 Sometimes leaving the relationship is the best decision 34:10 Separation can be positive 34:28 Sue’s top tips for people thinking about ending the relationship Catch-up on Sue’s first podcast, dealing with a relationship breakdown during menopause https://bit.ly/3RQ5e2G The dangers of a DIY divorce - https://bit.ly/3Tsvql7 Finding the unexpected joy of heartbreak with Rosie Wilby  https://youtu.be/nmXO_2Rgv70 Where do I start? A beginner’s guide to divorce: https://youtu.be/EhFpi8K9VZQHandling fear and uncertainty: https://youtu.be/hQqziVrHnRg If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 Join our list to get the latest from our lawyers, divorce coaches and relationship experts sent monthly to your inbox. Everything you need, in one 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. Instagram https://www.instagram.com/stowefamilylawuk Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 This podcast is brought to you by the Stowe talks team at Stowe Family Law - https://www.stowefamilylaw.co.uk/

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