When Our Friends Resent Our Success

12/05/2025 43 min Episodio 296
When Our Friends Resent Our Success

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Ryan and Will discuss the surprising reactions founders often face when they achieve success. They explore how unexpected resentment from friends and peers can arise, why it happens, and how to navigate these tricky social waters. Through personal anecdotes and practical advice, they delve into balancing humility and openness about success while staying true to oneself. Tune in to learn about managing relationships as you climb the ladder and handling the inevitable pushback with grace.Resources:Startup Therapy Podcast https://www.startups.com/community/startup-therapyWebsitehttps://www.startups.com/beginLinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/company/startups-co/Join our Network of Top Founders Wil Schroterhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/wilschroter/Ryan Rutanhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/ryan-rutan/What to listen for:00:31 The Unexpected Reactions to Success02:54 Personal Stories of Resentment07:57 The Impact of Success on Relationships12:32 Social Media and Validation14:01 Processing Success and Insecurities19:34 Navigating Conversations About Success21:04 The Validation Loop Dilemma21:21 Caring About Others' Opinions21:57 The Spectrum of Self-Presentation23:17 The Insecurity Behind Social Media Influencers25:34 The Cost of Flaunting Success29:04 Extreme Humility and Its Consequences32:19 Balancing Humility and Pride37:01 The Art of Humble Bragging40:39 Avoiding Resentment Through Humility41:46 The Power and Responsibility of Success42:38 Join the Startups.com Community