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Episode Synopsis
On this episode of the World Game-Changers podcast, Paul is joined by returning guest & host Rebecca Wheele for the fourth episode in a series of podcasts about what they each think is the greatest challenge in life.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
The mind is an incredibly powerful mechanism. But we can focus a lot of energy trying to manipulate or control a situation that’s out of our control, just because we have a dream around it. As a general rule of thumb, the more an individual can control their situation, the more the more chances of achieving that goal or forming that belief there will be. Once you’re at the behest of third parties your chances reduce because they may have other thoughts.
I’m learning to dance at the moment and it’s teaching me so much about the balance of control and letting it go in the technique and the flow and correct effort. I can practice all I like, but if that practice isn’t optimal – if I’m not learning the things I need to be learning to make progress – it’s just effort that’s wasted.
Recognise that you can have a dream, and that’s wonderful. You can go after it, set intentions, take all the action, but along the way the goalposts might move and if you’re too attached to the original idea or outcome then it’s going to skew your ability to grow and to go in the direction of your soul’s calling. That original goal might not be what was meant for you.
The positive language that we send down into our subconscious, which is very simple and binary, can raise you up energetically. Science has proven this. Part of the self-language I have doesn’t change because clouds pass and, if you’re Superman (like I tell myself I am), you can make it pass.
BEST MOMENTS
‘We think that if we just put in loads of effort we’ll achieve our goal. That’s not the case. There are two things we need to be very aware of: vision (what do I want for my life? And reality (what is it you’re trying to control?)’‘We’re not responsible for changing the thoughts and opinions of the other 8 billion people on the planet, but we can change ourselves. By changing our world we change the world.’
‘If you can change something, let go of the need to control it and just take action.’‘When you let go of the need to control situations and circumstances you do take back responsibility and you get power back, which is almost like control. It’s a kind of paradox.’
VALUABLE RESOURCES
Paul’s Story: Emerging From The Forest (UK): https://www.amazon.co.uk/Emerging-Forest-Pain-Purpose-Mastering/dp/1719373272
Paul’s Story: Emerging From The Forest (USA): https://www.amazon.com/Emerging-Forest-Pain-Purpose-Mastering/dp/1719373272
Mastering The Game Of Life Book (UK): https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mastering-Game-Life-Paul-Lowe/dp/1782227679
Mastering The Game Of Life Book (USA): https://www.amazon.com/Mastering-Game-Life-Paul-Lowe/dp/1782227679
Speaking From Our Hearts Books: Volumes 1-3 (Available on Amazon)
World Game-Changers Group
ABOUT THE GUEST
Rebecca is an artist and designer based in the South of England. She graduated from Kingston University in London 2013 with a degree in Illustration and Animation. After a shift in direction and new challenge working as a lifeguard and in management in the leisure industry, she went travelling around the world through South East Asia, Australia and New Zealand. She returned to the UK, to begin a journey working commercially in art and design.
Rebecca works together with people to create logos, help with branding, design or re-vamp websites and generally loves to get involved with creative projects. She works across all industries and loves listening to people and understanding what their business is about, why they do what they do and translating this into a form of visual communication. Rebecca is a seeker of the spiritual and inspired by the power and beauty in nature; from colour, form and pattern, to how we can look to nature as a guide and teacher in life.
www.rebeccawheele.com
ABOUT THE HOST
Paul has made a remarkable transformation from existing for many years in dark, desperate despair; to now living a really healthy, happy and fulfilling life.
From an early age, he was in the vice-like clutches of the demon drink and constantly embroiled within a dark cocktail of toxic beliefs, self-hate and destructive violence.
Along with his empathetic and dedicated team of world-class coaches and mentors, Paul’s purpose is deeply transformational:
Developing World Game-Changers…
He is extremely passionate about helping others to find their purpose, have a voice and ultimately, make a real difference.
This has been built on a long and distinguished history of heart-centred coaching and mentoring. He has also been responsible for raising significant amounts of funds for many charities and good causes around the world; positively impacting and inspiring thousands of children – mainly from challenging backgrounds – within the UK & worldwide.
Through this World Game-Changers podcast and books, he has been involved in – including being a best-selling co-author – Paul also helps others to get their own inspirational messages and stories out into the world; as well as offering support to many charitable organisations, in their development & fund-raising.
CONTACT METHODS
Tel: +44 (0) 7958 042 155
E-mail: [email protected]
Web: https://www.Paul-Lowe.com
Web: https://www.worldgamechangers.org/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/IamPaulLowe/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paul-d-lowe-7a78332a/
KEY TAKEAWAYS
The mind is an incredibly powerful mechanism. But we can focus a lot of energy trying to manipulate or control a situation that’s out of our control, just because we have a dream around it. As a general rule of thumb, the more an individual can control their situation, the more the more chances of achieving that goal or forming that belief there will be. Once you’re at the behest of third parties your chances reduce because they may have other thoughts.
I’m learning to dance at the moment and it’s teaching me so much about the balance of control and letting it go in the technique and the flow and correct effort. I can practice all I like, but if that practice isn’t optimal – if I’m not learning the things I need to be learning to make progress – it’s just effort that’s wasted.
Recognise that you can have a dream, and that’s wonderful. You can go after it, set intentions, take all the action, but along the way the goalposts might move and if you’re too attached to the original idea or outcome then it’s going to skew your ability to grow and to go in the direction of your soul’s calling. That original goal might not be what was meant for you.
The positive language that we send down into our subconscious, which is very simple and binary, can raise you up energetically. Science has proven this. Part of the self-language I have doesn’t change because clouds pass and, if you’re Superman (like I tell myself I am), you can make it pass.
BEST MOMENTS
‘We think that if we just put in loads of effort we’ll achieve our goal. That’s not the case. There are two things we need to be very aware of: vision (what do I want for my life? And reality (what is it you’re trying to control?)’‘We’re not responsible for changing the thoughts and opinions of the other 8 billion people on the planet, but we can change ourselves. By changing our world we change the world.’
‘If you can change something, let go of the need to control it and just take action.’‘When you let go of the need to control situations and circumstances you do take back responsibility and you get power back, which is almost like control. It’s a kind of paradox.’
VALUABLE RESOURCES
Paul’s Story: Emerging From The Forest (UK): https://www.amazon.co.uk/Emerging-Forest-Pain-Purpose-Mastering/dp/1719373272
Paul’s Story: Emerging From The Forest (USA): https://www.amazon.com/Emerging-Forest-Pain-Purpose-Mastering/dp/1719373272
Mastering The Game Of Life Book (UK): https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mastering-Game-Life-Paul-Lowe/dp/1782227679
Mastering The Game Of Life Book (USA): https://www.amazon.com/Mastering-Game-Life-Paul-Lowe/dp/1782227679
Speaking From Our Hearts Books: Volumes 1-3 (Available on Amazon)
World Game-Changers Group
ABOUT THE GUEST
Rebecca is an artist and designer based in the South of England. She graduated from Kingston University in London 2013 with a degree in Illustration and Animation. After a shift in direction and new challenge working as a lifeguard and in management in the leisure industry, she went travelling around the world through South East Asia, Australia and New Zealand. She returned to the UK, to begin a journey working commercially in art and design.
Rebecca works together with people to create logos, help with branding, design or re-vamp websites and generally loves to get involved with creative projects. She works across all industries and loves listening to people and understanding what their business is about, why they do what they do and translating this into a form of visual communication. Rebecca is a seeker of the spiritual and inspired by the power and beauty in nature; from colour, form and pattern, to how we can look to nature as a guide and teacher in life.
www.rebeccawheele.com
ABOUT THE HOST
Paul has made a remarkable transformation from existing for many years in dark, desperate despair; to now living a really healthy, happy and fulfilling life.
From an early age, he was in the vice-like clutches of the demon drink and constantly embroiled within a dark cocktail of toxic beliefs, self-hate and destructive violence.
Along with his empathetic and dedicated team of world-class coaches and mentors, Paul’s purpose is deeply transformational:
Developing World Game-Changers…
He is extremely passionate about helping others to find their purpose, have a voice and ultimately, make a real difference.
This has been built on a long and distinguished history of heart-centred coaching and mentoring. He has also been responsible for raising significant amounts of funds for many charities and good causes around the world; positively impacting and inspiring thousands of children – mainly from challenging backgrounds – within the UK & worldwide.
Through this World Game-Changers podcast and books, he has been involved in – including being a best-selling co-author – Paul also helps others to get their own inspirational messages and stories out into the world; as well as offering support to many charitable organisations, in their development & fund-raising.
CONTACT METHODS
Tel: +44 (0) 7958 042 155
E-mail: [email protected]
Web: https://www.Paul-Lowe.com
Web: https://www.worldgamechangers.org/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/IamPaulLowe/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paul-d-lowe-7a78332a/
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