TO READ THE TRANSCRIPT SCROLL TO THE BOTTOM OF THE PAGE.In episode 21 of the new Awaken The Possibilities Podcast, Host Terry Wildemann interviews Mel Robertson on "Dare to Thrive!”. Awaken the Possibilities Podcast features successful entrepreneurs and intuitive leaders who offer insights on how to attract success in business and life. ________________________________________________________________________________About Mel RobertsonMel Robertson is a De-Clutter Expert, Coach & the Founder of De-Cluttering Spaces. She helps her clients get free from clutter; physical, mental & emotional so they can make space for the magic to happen and experience happiness & abundance in every area of their lives.Website URL:: www.declutteringspaces.comFacebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/declutteringspaces/Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mel-robertson-ba810768/Twitter: https://twitter.com/DeClutterSpacesInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/declutteringspaces/?hl=enYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ-jt4qIOteblAdp2pZjn_Q________________________________________________________________________________About Terry Wildemann:Terry Wildemann is the owner of Intuitive Leadership® and a Business and Resilience Accelerator, Speaker and Certified Executive Coach.Terry's specialty is working with tired, unhealthy, close-to-burned-out entrepreneurs and professionals and helps them leap off the stress hamster wheel. They evolve into unstoppable stress resilient intuitive leaders and practical business mystics. Terry’s timely message guides clients and students to integrate intuition, stress resilience, positive communications and leadership with grounded business systems to achieve success by positively serving and influencing others. Her leadership experience includes owning a manufacturing company, image consulting company, leadership and holistic education center.Website URL:: www.IntuitiveLeadership.comFacebook Page: www.Facebook.com/intuitiveleaderFacebook Group: www.Facebook.com/groups/AwakenThePossibilitiesLinkedin: www.LInkedin.com/in/TerryWildemannTwitter: www.twitter.com/terrywildemann www.twitter.com/leaderintuition________________________________________________________________________________TRANSCRIPT100:00:02.370 --> 00:00:15.179Terry Wildemann: Welcome everyone to awaken the possibilities. I'm your host, Terry Waldman and it is a joy to be here with you today because I have a guest that a lot of us can use200:00:15.690 --> 00:00:30.660Terry Wildemann: One of the things about being in our homes for as long as we've been is that we get to notice the clutter. Oh my gosh, it's like, Okay, I can do better at this.300:00:31.320 --> 00:00:45.240Terry Wildemann: However, some of us need help. Some of us more help than others. And I know that when your house is cluttered. That is a signal to me that your life is cluttered.400:00:46.200 --> 00:00:51.060Terry Wildemann: Today I have an expert that can help us with all of that.500:00:51.750 --> 00:01:00.540Terry Wildemann: Mel Robertson is a declutter expert coach and the founder of the cluttering spaces. She helps your clients get free from clutter.600:01:00.780 --> 00:01:19.440Terry Wildemann: physical, mental and emotional so they can make space for the magic to happen and experience abundance and happiness in every area of their lives. Doesn't that sound wonderful, welcome, welcome. Now, and today's topic is going to be dare to thrive and we're gonna be cleaning out700:01:23.820 --> 00:01:25.770Terry Wildemann: How did you get into this800:01:26.340 --> 00:01:29.040Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: Oh, sorry. Thank you so much for having me on your show.900:01:29.730 --> 00:01:34.200Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: I'm honored to be here with you and this is my I love talking about this. So the1000:01:34.470 --> 00:01:47.550Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: The short condensed version, how I really got into doing what I was doing what I do is that I got to a point in my life where I received a $50,000 check in the mail and I was able to take six months off to figure out what I wanted to be when I grew up.1100:01:48.090 --> 00:01:48.330Terry Wildemann: And at1200:01:48.360 --> 00:02:01.890Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: That point in my life I had, I was able to create order out of chaos. I loved creating order out of chaos and I had a background and energy healing Reiki and theta i didn't want to sit in a room with someone all day long and do sessions.1300:02:02.250 --> 00:02:03.330Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: And at that point.1400:02:03.510 --> 00:02:09.450Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: I watched that show hoarders for the first time and I became absolutely horrified.1500:02:10.200 --> 00:02:18.150Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: Because all of that stuff that's been accumulated around them that they've accumulated for years as like their Great Wall of China.1600:02:18.690 --> 00:02:27.600Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: And this show comes in and removes everything in a four day period and then films. The show in the process. And then they leave.1700:02:28.110 --> 00:02:38.490Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: And then that person has been completely exposed all of their defenses have been removed, and then you leave, and then the clutter comes back worse than it was before.1800:02:38.580 --> 00:02:42.390Terry Wildemann: Is the emotional stuff hasn't been healed that create clutter.1900:02:42.720 --> 00:02:51.990Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: It just causes more trauma by removing it all and leaving them exposed and raw and they're just out there like, and it just totally freaks them out and it gets worse.2000:02:52.320 --> 00:03:00.090Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: So that made me want to start a company that actually helped people get to the root of the clutter so that it didn't get that way in the first place.2100:03:00.360 --> 00:03:07.620Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: And that it doesn't keep coming back because it's our birthright to be happy and abundant in every area of our lives.2200:03:07.860 --> 00:03:15.480Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: And clutter is anything that gets in the way of that, whether it be the physical stuff in our environment or the mental stuff the limiting beliefs, the2300:03:15.690 --> 00:03:27.150Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: Repressed emotions resentments fears, all of that stuff. And so it made me want to create a company that could really help people access their birthright of being happy and abundant in every area of their life.2400:03:28.170 --> 00:03:32.520Terry Wildemann: How cool is that, so tell me, how do you work with people.2500:03:33.330 --> 00:03:41.460Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: I work with people in a couple ways. There's a lot of people that really just want to deal with the physical clutter and they don't want anything else and they want a solution they want2600:03:41.820 --> 00:03:51.870Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: They want you to help them get their office organized. They want you to help them with the pantry or the closet and you can kind of just feed them little pieces and little pieces and hope that someday they come along.2700:03:52.200 --> 00:04:04.200Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: But the real work happens when you actually start coaching with me. And we do the work on the inside because I have to teach you how to become present with your life because2800:04:04.440 --> 00:04:09.120Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: All of the clutter accumulates, because we avoid it, we resist it. And we deny it.2900:04:10.200 --> 00:04:19.950Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: Or we're hanging on to stuff because it feels really good. And when we're avoiding and hanging on. We can't allow what simply is to be3000:04:20.280 --> 00:04:29.640Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: And so the one thing that I teach my clients and I tell them this, I give them the keys to the kingdom in our first session. And if you just put this piece in practice, you'll be firing me shortly.3100:04:30.330 --> 00:04:44.370Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: All you need to do is learn to show up and bring your presence to your life. And when you can just sit with yourself and be present without judging yourself without trying to change anything. And just witness yourself exactly as you are.3200:04:44.760 --> 00:04:52.260Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: You begin to make space inside of yourself. Now the great thing about that is, there's a principle and operation in the universe that states.3300:04:52.830 --> 00:04:54.720Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: As above so below.3400:04:54.930 --> 00:05:07.620Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: As within so without it's the principle of correspondence. And so the outside is just a mirror of the inside. If you try to change the outside. First, it's really hard. It's like trying to get molasses to run up a hill in the middle of January. Right.3500:05:14.250 --> 00:05:21.900Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: And so when you do it from the outside, and it's going to drag yourself. It's so hard. But when you start making the space on the inside.3600:05:22.320 --> 00:05:25.920Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: It starts to happen naturally. And what's what changes is that3700:05:26.280 --> 00:05:37.440Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: Because you make space inside. You have to have space on the outside to it has to match. There's a law in place. So once you make the space you start wanting to make space outside3800:05:37.740 --> 00:05:49.950Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: And the reason, how I figured this out is, I was actually a really cluttered, messy kid growing up. You could not walk in my room. There were two paths on my floor, and I was the only one who knew where they were, they weren't existent to anybody else.3900:05:50.370 --> 00:05:59.910Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: I was super attached to stuff like office supplies containers books, CDs and people I had severe attachments to people and things and stuff like that.4000:06:00.450 --> 00:06:19.830Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: But I also experienced a lot of trauma and loss early in childhood and by the age of 15 I experienced what I consider to be the dark night of my soul, which for me was losing my older brother to suicide. It's tough, being the one to discover his body.4100:06:21.060 --> 00:06:39.690Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: And in the same moment in his suicide note inheriting all of his belongings. So at 15 years old. After finding him and his home. I had to then go back into that home and go through everything and figure out what I was going to keep and what other people could have4200:06:40.770 --> 00:06:42.180Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: So as you could imagine.4300:06:42.270 --> 00:06:43.890Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: At 15 years old my life pretty4400:06:43.890 --> 00:06:48.630Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: Much started to spiral into a black hole and I planned on killing myself. I didn't want to be here anymore.4500:06:48.840 --> 00:06:58.500Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: Oh, wow. And I also got kicked out of high school for being a danger to myself and others know men, mind you, a little hundred year old. I'm hundred pound like4600:06:58.710 --> 00:07:09.240Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: sophomore in high school, little tiny thing like maybe being considered a danger to myself and others and being kicked out of high school, and I wasn't allowed to return until I received intensive therapy.4700:07:10.440 --> 00:07:27.840Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: What that looked like was I spent the next year and a half of my life living in a residential treatment center for adolescence, but unbeknownst to me, that is where my life would drastically change because while I was living there. I was introduced to yoga in mindfulness4800:07:28.410 --> 00:07:28.620Terry Wildemann: And4900:07:28.860 --> 00:07:32.100Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: What yoga and mindfulness taught me in a nutshell was how to5000:07:32.100 --> 00:07:33.000Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: Come home.5100:07:33.030 --> 00:07:35.040Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: And be present in my body.5200:07:35.310 --> 00:07:46.350Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: For all that inner clutter repressed emotions resentments fears limiting beliefs. All of that stuff that had been accumulating. And as a result what started to happen was5300:07:46.890 --> 00:07:49.170Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: I got organized from the inside out.5400:07:49.350 --> 00:07:51.870Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: I started to go through my stuff.5500:07:51.930 --> 00:07:53.820Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: And I had to start going through it.5600:07:54.090 --> 00:07:58.710Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: But it was gradual. It wasn't overnight. I just went through everything and let it go.5700:07:59.070 --> 00:08:06.660Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: I would go through it and let go of some stuff go through it and let go of some stuff and gradually over a period of about 12 years I went from being is5800:08:06.960 --> 00:08:24.090Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: Really cluttered, messy kid to someone who creates order out of chaos and has to have clean, clear space, like I can have a little mess and a little clutter, but it has to get cleaned up like an annual get a little bit but it happened from the inside out. And that's how I know this works.5900:08:25.110 --> 00:08:30.930Terry Wildemann: Wonderful night phenomenal story and what a testament to entrepreneurship.6000:08:31.470 --> 00:08:47.190Terry Wildemann: That you found a solution that started with you first and that I'm finding that that's really what is happening with many of the entrepreneurs that I interview here on the show is that it does start from the inside out, we end up doing that which we need to learn for ourselves.6100:08:47.370 --> 00:08:49.140Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: I say your messenger message right6200:08:49.200 --> 00:08:50.550Terry Wildemann: Yeah, absolutely.6300:08:52.620 --> 00:08:54.180Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: Mine was a real mess.6400:08:55.800 --> 00:08:56.370Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: shutting the door.6500:08:57.570 --> 00:09:02.190Terry Wildemann: Is absolutely brain that is really, really cool. So I'm curious.6600:09:02.520 --> 00:09:09.030Terry Wildemann: What is the time frame between when you found yourself and you started your business.6700:09:09.300 --> 00:09:21.570Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: Hmm, so I i was about 18 when I got out of that residential treatment facility and it wasn't, gosh, I didn't start my business in 2014 so I got out in 95 to 2014 how many years is that6800:09:23.670 --> 00:09:24.990Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: Right. Um,6900:09:25.110 --> 00:09:27.360Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: But you know, it's funny because7000:09:28.620 --> 00:09:40.320Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: He start doing all this and I got to this place where I was really uncluttered but I also was in a place where I still struggle with codependence and I got into a relationship where I basically just shut my light off.7100:09:40.620 --> 00:09:54.630Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: For someone else in order to not lose that person because my light was too bright for them and for, gosh, from 2007 till about 2013 I pretty much just7200:09:55.050 --> 00:10:04.950Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: Stayed like I just shut my light off and I finally got to a point where I wanted to take my life again. I was like, I'm miserable. Like, I'm just tapped out I'm emotionally drained. I don't want to be here anymore.7300:10:05.340 --> 00:10:16.050Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: I'm not even connected to source anymore and I had remembered everything that I ever learned that it's our birthright to be happy and abundant in every area of our life. And I got to this point where I had to make a decision.7400:10:16.470 --> 00:10:24.690Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: I'm either going to end my life right now be done with this, or I'm going to do whatever it takes to get access to that and find out how to experience that.7500:10:25.050 --> 00:10:31.920Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: So I made that commitment to myself that I was going to make my happiness my number one priority because she was my number one priority for the longest time7600:10:32.220 --> 00:10:42.420Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: And so I had to put myself first. And when I made that decision. I started to practices in my life because I wasn't doing anything. I wasn't reading anything spiritual anymore because she didn't want to hear about it.7700:10:42.720 --> 00:10:49.680Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: I wasn't, you know, praying connecting meditating doing any of that. So I started with just five minutes a day.7800:10:50.040 --> 00:11:06.030Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: Sitting in my car before I went into work just doing this practice that I call allowing the now just showing up and meeting myself right where I am, without any judgment and letting whatever is simply be and I became what I call a happiness seeking missile.7900:11:06.810 --> 00:11:07.380Terry Wildemann: I love it.8000:11:07.740 --> 00:11:12.870Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: A heat seeking missile locks onto a heat signature and doesn't let go until it makes impact. Right. And then there are8100:11:13.290 --> 00:11:14.130Terry Wildemann: seeking missile.8200:11:14.190 --> 00:11:24.840Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: So I happiness seeking missile does the same thing everywhere I went I made it my intention to look for something that made me feel good or brought me joy because it was my default8300:11:24.990 --> 00:11:29.220Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: To find what I didn't like or what was negative. So I was always focused on the negative8400:11:29.490 --> 00:11:33.330Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: So I wanted to change the default from being negative to positive8500:11:33.360 --> 00:11:33.840Terry Wildemann: Positive8600:11:33.900 --> 00:11:34.530Right now.8700:11:35.940 --> 00:11:37.290Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: You know, you just raise your vibration8800:11:37.980 --> 00:11:46.410Terry Wildemann: Now some of the listeners to awaken the possibilities may not understand what you mean when you say it diminishes your light.8900:11:46.680 --> 00:12:00.330Terry Wildemann: Hmm, share a little bit more and explain to the awaken the possibilities audience. I think most of them do get it and understand but for new listeners. They may not get what you're talking about when you say your light was diminished.9000:12:00.450 --> 00:12:01.380Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: Yeah, so9100:12:02.820 --> 00:12:11.070Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: I'm a very vibrant bright person very connected to source my relationship with God is the most important relationship in my life and when9200:12:11.670 --> 00:12:20.460Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: And I'm very for a lot of people I'm considered out there, spiritually, and a lot of things that I would talk about Ascension not having to experience physical death, you know,9300:12:20.910 --> 00:12:32.010Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: Entities being channeled and reading that kind of stuff. And I was always talking about I'm someone who doesn't like to read fiction. I don't like to fill my head with anything that's not true or uplifting.9400:12:32.550 --> 00:12:39.510Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: And so I I was always reading spiritual books and she would always get pissed that I wouldn't read anything else. And I was always just talking about9500:12:39.900 --> 00:12:49.740Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: Spiritual stuff because that's just my focus. That's that was my thing. And I didn't want to lose her because I was codependent and I had separation anxiety from like losing my brother and stuff.9600:12:50.190 --> 00:13:03.540Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: But I didn't want to lose her so I just shut my light down to be what she wanted me to be. And then I just overtime. I got more depressed. I got miserable, and then I wanted to take my life because I just kept dimming my life for her.9700:13:03.630 --> 00:13:12.030Terry Wildemann: And that's a, that's a big deal. So I want, I want to just summarize here, shutting down someone's light is being9800:13:13.200 --> 00:13:17.250Terry Wildemann: What other people want you to be not who you actually are.9900:13:18.300 --> 00:13:29.250Terry Wildemann: And when we can't be who we actually ARE ALL the symptoms that you're talking about are what evolved from that, you know, I can appreciate what you're talking about.10000:13:29.790 --> 00:13:38.400Terry Wildemann: To share very quick story I under leadership center from 2001 to 2009 and I had various people working at the center and10100:13:39.390 --> 00:13:59.460Terry Wildemann: It was really a it was my center I put my heart. You know, it was my second home it I put my you know everything I had into it and I will never forget that one of the practitioners came to me and said, my client is coming and she can't handle your energy. I need to ask you to leave.10200:14:01.890 --> 00:14:04.320Terry Wildemann: And that was from my own center.10300:14:05.070 --> 00:14:05.310Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: And10400:14:05.490 --> 00:14:23.370Terry Wildemann: I walked into my office shaping shaking and unfortunately as strong as I am I allow that to affect me for many years and I dimmed my light.10500:14:24.030 --> 00:14:46.920Terry Wildemann: Right, because I do have big energy I you know I have always had a big energy. And what I realized was it constricted my voice and I couldn't really be who I wanted to be. And the bottom line was that counselor should have held her client accountable to that.10600:14:48.420 --> 00:14:50.880Terry Wildemann: I, in retrospect,10700:14:51.960 --> 00:14:54.180Terry Wildemann: As a coach of so stunned.10800:14:55.320 --> 00:15:01.380Terry Wildemann: It would have been wise for me to have said, that's your client problem and that's your problem. This is my center.10900:15:03.690 --> 00:15:12.660Terry Wildemann: But at that moment in time it. I was so thrilled by that I didn't do that and allowed it. And I'm going to say I allowed it.11000:15:13.230 --> 00:15:22.020Terry Wildemann: To affect me for a very long time. So I appreciate everything that you're talking about in dimming your light and it can be. And we, as parents, and as teachers.11100:15:22.800 --> 00:15:33.060Terry Wildemann: It really is important for us. And I don't want to say the word meat because meat is the lack when you say I need this, I need you know when we use that word mean it's like, but when we say11200:15:34.290 --> 00:15:46.020Terry Wildemann: When we watch our words and elevate people instead of diminish them. I mean, can you imagine telling somebody you've, you've got to leave because this person is intimidated by you.11300:15:46.110 --> 00:15:46.530And11400:15:47.820 --> 00:15:57.750Terry Wildemann: Am I, oh my gosh. So, gosh, do I understand exactly what it is that you're talking about. And as parents we need to be very cautious of the words that we use the phrases that we use.11500:15:58.110 --> 00:16:16.380Terry Wildemann: And what we say that diminishes our children, our spouses and the people who are who walk our, our path. So thank you for sharing that message. Thank you for allowing me to share my story because that's when I don't think I've shared ever awaken the possibilities. So that's11600:16:18.390 --> 00:16:33.570Terry Wildemann: That's really, really cool. So I know that you have a really big event coming up. Can you share, please, with the making the possibilities audience what this event is all about and the special people that you're going to have involved with this event.11700:16:33.780 --> 00:16:40.410Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: Yes, I am super excited. I have a huge online SHOW COMING OUT IN JULY 13 called dare to thrive.11800:16:40.770 --> 00:16:48.330Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: How to let go get unstuck reconnect to source and of course experience happiness and abundance in every area of your life.11900:16:48.630 --> 00:16:56.880Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: So it's all about thriving. It's all about getting rid of everything that's in the way of you living the life that you came here to live, whether that's being your own boss, whether12000:16:57.150 --> 00:17:09.330Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: Whatever it is for you that you came here to do. It's helping you clear anything that's out of that right now. I have over 27 amazing experts coming on the show. And I'm sure there's more to come.12100:17:10.410 --> 00:17:13.050Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: You are one of them, of course, Judy clover.12200:17:14.250 --> 00:17:22.770Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: Marci Newman Christopher Tim's there's just so many people, the list goes on and on and on, but I'm super excited to bring this series to you.12300:17:23.220 --> 00:17:32.700Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: It launches July 13 it's going to go on for over three weeks one interview a day goes out into your inbox that you get to watch and just get amazing12400:17:32.970 --> 00:17:44.820Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: They're short interviews designed to really give you some amazing content and an immediate action tip that you can put into place right now to get yourself unstuck from where you are.12500:17:45.060 --> 00:17:53.400Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: And get back into the Flow of Abundance so you can get that thing that's just been sitting on your chest for far too long to come to life and to come to reality for you.12600:17:54.690 --> 00:17:59.610Terry Wildemann: Brilliant, brilliant, brilliant. And I'm so blessed to be part of it. I'm really excited about it.12700:18:00.720 --> 00:18:07.530Terry Wildemann: So mount is are there any parting words that you would like to share with it. We can the possibilities audience.12800:18:07.980 --> 00:18:17.520Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: Absolutely. The biggest gift you can give yourself is your presence and that's the only requirement for getting free from clutter because12900:18:17.760 --> 00:18:27.150Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: Clutter only accumulates because you're unwilling yes unwilling, I know it's harsh, but you're unwilling to look at it, you have to become willing13000:18:27.450 --> 00:18:35.850Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: To meet yourself right where you are in the great thing about it is you don't have to know why you're hanging on to it and you don't have to do any digging.13100:18:36.240 --> 00:18:42.000Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: It's like GPS. GPS doesn't need to know where the hell. You've been all your life to get you where you want to go.13200:18:42.210 --> 00:18:47.250Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: It only needs to know where you stand right now and where you want to go and it can get you there.13300:18:47.460 --> 00:18:55.290Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: So all you need to know is where you're standing right now. You don't need to know why it's. You don't have to beat yourself up because it's gotten this way.13400:18:55.560 --> 00:19:01.680Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: Just right now. Okay. There's clutter that I need to deal with and that's just it. This is it right now and13500:19:02.070 --> 00:19:13.170Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: That's it. So meeting yourself right where you are, without any judgment and just showing up for yourself. When you do that you make space for the magic to happen in your life changes.13600:19:13.500 --> 00:19:22.380Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: I had a client who was totally just tapped out her schedule was completely full doing things for everybody else. Nothing for her.13700:19:22.710 --> 00:19:38.640Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: And she was working at a job. She wasn't happy at and at 27 years old she was already headed for burnout. She took a 30 day challenge of mine to do this one practice for five minutes a day. The allowing the now where you just show up for yourself and do this practice.13800:19:39.690 --> 00:19:54.270Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: After right after the 30 days ended her boyfriend at the time who she thought was going to marry left her the relationship ended, but the very next day she got a job offer for a job that was an 80% salary increase13900:19:54.990 --> 00:20:00.090Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: Got to take a month off before she had to start that job. So she took a three week trip out of the country.14000:20:00.450 --> 00:20:12.660Terry Wildemann: There you go, well, how brilliant is that, well, thank you so much mail for sharing your stories or experiences and what daring to thrive is really all about to cluttering our life.14100:20:13.140 --> 00:20:25.080Terry Wildemann: And to my waking the possibilities. Audience I really expect that you've learned a lot from today. This is a brilliant way to over the summer, little by little, every day began to declutter your life.14200:20:25.380 --> 00:20:28.350Terry Wildemann: Please join us on the summit, can you say the dates again now.14300:20:28.590 --> 00:20:36.210Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: Yeah, July 13 that will launch. So Terry will have all the information on how you can register if you're in her community, you'll get an email from her about it.14400:20:36.480 --> 00:20:37.110Terry Wildemann: You will14500:20:37.590 --> 00:20:39.480Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: So thank you so much for having me.14600:20:39.660 --> 00:20:46.380Terry Wildemann: You are very, very welcome and thanks so much could be raking the possibilities. Audience Oh, Mel. Where else can people find you.14700:20:46.860 --> 00:20:59.250Mel - De-Clutter Expert & Coach: D cluttering spaces com you can reach me out there. That's my website info at declaring spaces com is my email. And you can always call me at 619-602-372514800:20:59.910 --> 00:21:05.250Terry Wildemann: Thank you so very much. And folks, you can learn more about intuitive leadership and awaken the possibilities.14900:21:05.640 --> 00:21:14.250Terry Wildemann: At intuitive leadership.com all of our podcasts are on awaken the possibilities calm, which is part of the intuitive leadership website.15000:21:14.730 --> 00:21:24.390Terry Wildemann: Also you can find us on YouTube and on many radio station platforms we are on iTunes Spotify SoundCloud, just to name a few.15100:21:24.810 --> 00:21:38.010Terry Wildemann: You can also connect with me for VIP days coaching and training at intuitive leadership com LinkedIn, Facebook, you name it. Social media just plug into a woman and you will find me.15200:21:38.400 --> 00:21:50.490Terry Wildemann: So I wish you know much success in your life. Take a deep breath shift into your heart feel the love and I look forward to seeing you next time to your success.🔔 Subscribe to Shiftology Live!® for weekly conversations that help high-achieving leaders shift from burnout and overgiving into intuitive leadership, inner alignment, and lasting impact.💫 Join the Prosperity Power Network — a community for conscious leaders ready to lead with clarity, purpose, and presence: www.YourProsperityPower.com🌟 Explore VIP Days, Retreats, or Speaking Opportunities: intuitiveleadership.com/shiftology🎙️ Hosted by Intutive Truth Detective, Terry Wildemann Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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