Welcome to Part 2 of Reflections. In this episode, I expand on the definition of love as an active word; a verb that isn't solely about attraction or compatibility, but moreover: effort, intention, and understanding. While this episode is relevant to all relationships – friendships, familial ties, romantic flames, and platonic connections – I largely use my 13 year long relationship as my lens. One of the biggest lessons I've learned is that there has to be a balance between individualism and connection, an element of reciprocity and mutual appreciation, and giving and receiving graciously.A few key takeaways:Life's challenges don't always have to be fixed, and planned visions are not certain.Love is not determined by personalities, but by creating a fascinating harmony that keeps bonds in tact while fortifying your individual selves.Other people's behavior towards you is not a reflection of your own worth. Instead, it is a reflection of their relationship with themselves.Love requires a balance between separateness and togetherness. Commitments are voluntary agreements, while attachments are attempts at control.Communication is important, but comprehension is key. Ensure that the other person truly understands you.Cultivate fascination and curiosity in your relationships to keep them alive and interesting.Spend time alone to know yourself better and to therefore be more present in your relationships and your communities.Ask yourself: "does this person make me happy?" Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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