184: Self-Advocacy Hypocrisy: I Tell My Kids To Speak Up for Themselves & I Self-Silence

17/07/2025 6 min Temporada 4 Episodio 184
184: Self-Advocacy Hypocrisy: I Tell My Kids To Speak Up for Themselves & I Self-Silence

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I'm exploring the connection between self-advocacy and self-silencing as I head into a break because I'm experiencing burnout myself, which feels perfectly timed for this topic. I challenge you to think about how we constantly tell our kids to advocate for themselves while we struggle to do the same, often because we've been conditioned to believe that self-advocacy is selfish when we're supposed to be sensitive to others' needs. I want you to examine where you've been self-silencing - avoiding conflict, neglecting your intuition, or not sharing your desires - and ask yourself what you'd tell a friend in your same situation, because awareness is the catalyst for change and nothing will shift if we keep putting everyone else's needs before our own.