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Listen "Ep. 6 - They Were Playing "Marriage Chicken" - And They're Only Realizing It Now"
Episode Synopsis
In this eye-opening episode, Sam and Gen uncover the truth about their rushed marriage: they both acted on assumptions about what the other wanted.
With guest host & psychotherapist Alanna's support, they delve into the overlooked red flags and communication breakdowns that occurred during Year 1 of their marriage, as well as the impact of their assumptions. Samuel also shares what he believes to be the crowning achievement of their time a married couple.
As they navigate this challenging conversation, they end up rediscovering some of the love and admiration that brought them together in the first place.
Key Points:
Rushed into Marriage: Both Sam and Gen acknowledge that they rushed into their marriage, driven by a desire to move quickly and a competitive spirit.
Ignored Red Flags: They discuss how they overlooked red flags in their relationship, such as their differing communication styles and unresolved personal issues.
Communication Breakdown: They delve into specific instances of poor communication, including Sam's tendency to escalate arguments and Gen's habit of withdrawing.
Personal Growth: Both individuals reflect on their personal growth and the lessons they've learned from their marriage.
Future Hopes: They discuss their hopes for the future, including building a stronger foundation for future relationships and using their experiences to help others.
Timestamps:
0:00 - 10:00: Introduction and discussion of rushing into marriage.
10:00 - 20:00: Deep dive into communication breakdowns and unresolved issues.
20:00 - 30:00: Reflection on personal growth and lessons learned.
30:00 - 33:38: Future hopes and concluding thoughts.
With guest host & psychotherapist Alanna's support, they delve into the overlooked red flags and communication breakdowns that occurred during Year 1 of their marriage, as well as the impact of their assumptions. Samuel also shares what he believes to be the crowning achievement of their time a married couple.
As they navigate this challenging conversation, they end up rediscovering some of the love and admiration that brought them together in the first place.
Key Points:
Rushed into Marriage: Both Sam and Gen acknowledge that they rushed into their marriage, driven by a desire to move quickly and a competitive spirit.
Ignored Red Flags: They discuss how they overlooked red flags in their relationship, such as their differing communication styles and unresolved personal issues.
Communication Breakdown: They delve into specific instances of poor communication, including Sam's tendency to escalate arguments and Gen's habit of withdrawing.
Personal Growth: Both individuals reflect on their personal growth and the lessons they've learned from their marriage.
Future Hopes: They discuss their hopes for the future, including building a stronger foundation for future relationships and using their experiences to help others.
Timestamps:
0:00 - 10:00: Introduction and discussion of rushing into marriage.
10:00 - 20:00: Deep dive into communication breakdowns and unresolved issues.
20:00 - 30:00: Reflection on personal growth and lessons learned.
30:00 - 33:38: Future hopes and concluding thoughts.
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