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Listen "Unearthing Your True Self: How Rediscovering Who You Really Are Creates Lasting Inner Calm with Kristen Crabtree"
Episode Synopsis
In this powerful episode, certified divorce coach and author Kristen Crabtree joins host Aanya to share her journey out of a 22-year psychologically abusive marriage and how she reclaimed her authentic identity at age 53. Using her unique archaeologist–artifact–architect framework and her book Be the You That’s More You Than You’ve Ever Been, Kristen explains why true inner calm doesn’t come from external fixes but from quietly reconnecting with the self you buried long ago. Listeners will discover practical ways to break toxic thought–emotion–behavior loops, why awareness is the ultimate medicine, and how even tiny shifts (like listening to one life-changing audiobook) create ripple effects of liberation.
Key Takeaways
Your “True You 2.0” is uncovered, not created — it’s already there beneath layers of adaptation, manipulation, or burnout.
Calm is not something you chase externally (medication, meditation apps, or perfect routines); it’s the natural byproduct of hearing and living your own inner truth.
Awareness is medicine: noticing the cycle of Thought → Emotion → Behavior → Experience (and back) lets you interrupt the loop at any point.
Small permissions and random moments (a friend’s book recommendation, a hair-stylist’s suggestion) can spark massive transformation — the “web story” ripple effect.
Meditation isn’t one-size-fits-all; walking in nature, guided experiences, or Dr. Joe Dispenza-style practices can all quiet the mind enough to hear yourself.
The biggest barrier to authenticity is staying lost in inner (and outer) chaos — choosing to become intentional and deliberate is the first step out.
You don’t need a PhD or a guru; your true self already holds every answer you’ll ever need.
Connect with Kristen Crabtree
Website & full ecosystem: https://www.paramourparadox.com/
New book: Be the You That's More You Than You've Ever Been (Amazon)
Free Community: The Murmuration
Instagram & Facebook
Special listener gifts (limited time): – Buy the book by Dec 31 → enter to win 1 of 20 limited-edition Paramour Paradox T-shirts – First 5 listeners who join The Murmuration and mention this podcast → receive a signed copy of the book (free shipping) – Free “Who Am I” video series + Mind Expansion (Me²) meditations
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DisclaimerThis video is for educational and informational purposes only. The views expressed are the personal opinions of the guest and do not reflect the views of the host or Healthy Mind By Avik. We do not intend to harm, defame, or discredit any person, organization, brand, product, country, or profession mentioned. All third-party media used remain the property of their respective owners and are used under fair use for informational purposes. By watching, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer.
About Healthy Mind By AvikHealthy Mind By Avik is a global platform redefining mental health as a necessity, not a luxury. Born during the pandemic, it has become a sanctuary for healing, growth, and mindful living. Hosted by Avik Chakraborty, this channel brings you powerful podcasts and grounded conversations across mental health, emotional well-being, mindfulness, holistic healing, trauma recovery, and self-empowerment. With over 4,400 episodes and 168.4K global listeners, we are committed to amplifying stories and breaking stigma worldwide.Subscribe and be part of this healing journey.
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Key Takeaways
Your “True You 2.0” is uncovered, not created — it’s already there beneath layers of adaptation, manipulation, or burnout.
Calm is not something you chase externally (medication, meditation apps, or perfect routines); it’s the natural byproduct of hearing and living your own inner truth.
Awareness is medicine: noticing the cycle of Thought → Emotion → Behavior → Experience (and back) lets you interrupt the loop at any point.
Small permissions and random moments (a friend’s book recommendation, a hair-stylist’s suggestion) can spark massive transformation — the “web story” ripple effect.
Meditation isn’t one-size-fits-all; walking in nature, guided experiences, or Dr. Joe Dispenza-style practices can all quiet the mind enough to hear yourself.
The biggest barrier to authenticity is staying lost in inner (and outer) chaos — choosing to become intentional and deliberate is the first step out.
You don’t need a PhD or a guru; your true self already holds every answer you’ll ever need.
Connect with Kristen Crabtree
Website & full ecosystem: https://www.paramourparadox.com/
New book: Be the You That's More You Than You've Ever Been (Amazon)
Free Community: The Murmuration
Instagram & Facebook
Special listener gifts (limited time): – Buy the book by Dec 31 → enter to win 1 of 20 limited-edition Paramour Paradox T-shirts – First 5 listeners who join The Murmuration and mention this podcast → receive a signed copy of the book (free shipping) – Free “Who Am I” video series + Mind Expansion (Me²) meditations
Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life?DM on PM - Send me a message on PodMatchDM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik
DisclaimerThis video is for educational and informational purposes only. The views expressed are the personal opinions of the guest and do not reflect the views of the host or Healthy Mind By Avik. We do not intend to harm, defame, or discredit any person, organization, brand, product, country, or profession mentioned. All third-party media used remain the property of their respective owners and are used under fair use for informational purposes. By watching, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer.
About Healthy Mind By AvikHealthy Mind By Avik is a global platform redefining mental health as a necessity, not a luxury. Born during the pandemic, it has become a sanctuary for healing, growth, and mindful living. Hosted by Avik Chakraborty, this channel brings you powerful podcasts and grounded conversations across mental health, emotional well-being, mindfulness, holistic healing, trauma recovery, and self-empowerment. With over 4,400 episodes and 168.4K global listeners, we are committed to amplifying stories and breaking stigma worldwide.Subscribe and be part of this healing journey.
ContactBrand: Healthy Mind By AvikEmail: [email protected] | [email protected]: www.healthymindbyavik.comBased in: India and USAOpen to collaborations, guest appearances, coaching, and strategic partnerships.
CHECK PODCAST SHOWS & BE A GUESTPodcasts: https://www.podbean.com/podcast-network/healthymindbyavikBe a guest: https://www.healthymindbyavik.com/beaguestVideo Testimonial: https://www.healthymindbyavik.com/testimonialsCommunity: https://nas.io/healthymindNewsletter: https://healthymindbyavik.substack.com/
OUR SERVICESBusiness Podcast Management: https://ourofferings.healthymindbyavik.com/corporatepodcasting/Individual Podcast Management: https://ourofferings.healthymindbyavik.com/Podcasting/Share Your Story: https://ourofferings.healthymindbyavik.com/shareyourstory
STAY CONNECTEDMedium: https://medium.com/@contentbyavikYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@healthymindbyavikInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/healthyminds.pod/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/podcast.healthymindLinkedIn Page: https://www.linkedin.com/company/healthymindbyavikLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/avikchakrabortypodcaster/Twitter: https://twitter.com/podhealthclubPinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/Avikpodhealth/
SHARE YOUR REVIEWGoogle Review: https://www.podpage.com/bizblend/reviews/new/Video Testimonial: https://famewall.healthymindbyavik.com/
Because every story matters and yours could be the one that lights the way.
#podmatch #healthymind #healthymindbyavik #wellness #HealthyMindByAvik #MentalHealthAwareness #MentalHealthPodcast #SelfDiscovery #AuthenticLiving #InnerCalm #TraumaRecovery #PersonalGrowth #KristenCrabtree #BeTheYou ThatsMoreYouThanYouveEverBeen #PodcastLife #MindfulnessMatters #StorytellingAsMedicine
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