What if the quiet weight you've been carrying isn't proof that you failed, but evidence that you've grown? In this episode, I share why regret doesn't have to be your burden. It can be your teacher. Drawing from my own mother's unfulfilled dreams and the wisdom of palliative care nurse Bronnie Ware's work with dying patients, we explore how to transform those "if only" moments into a roadmap for creating a life that truly reflects who you are now. This conversation is for every woman who's ever whispered, "I wish I'd done that differently" and wondered if it's too late to rewrite the story.Key TakeawaysRegret is feedback, not failureThat gap between who you once were and who you've become shows you've learned something important about yourself. When you say "I wish I'd done that differently," you're actually recognising growth. It stings sometimes, but that's where healing and change begin.The most common deathbed regret reveals what matters most"I wish I had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me" topped Bronnie Ware's list. How often have you put your dreams on hold to be who everyone else needs you to be? Somewhere in being the good mum, reliable partner, or dependable colleague, you may have lost sight of yourself.You can't rewrite the past, but you can change what it means to youTurn regret into wisdom through three steps: acknowledge it out loud or in writing, find the lesson by asking what it teaches you about your values, and apply it forwards with one small action today. These small steps lead to big changes in your life.Regret can be sneaky and keep you stuck in "if only" thinkingIt whispers that it's too late or that you should have known better, keeping you focused on what can't be changed instead of what can. But regret isn't about the past at all. It's often revealing a belief you're ready to challenge, like thinking your voice doesn't matter or that your dreams aren't worth pursuing.This next chapter isn't about chasing perfectionIt's about living with intention and saying, "I'm proud of who I am now, and I'm choosing to create what comes next." You did the best you could with what you knew then. Now you know more, so you can live differently.Moving ForwardYour regrets aren't meant to break you. They're meant to guide you towards a life that's truer to who you are now. You can let regret become a wall, or you can let it become a doorway. Take a moment today to reflect: if there's one regret you could release, what would it be? What tiny step could you take to rewrite that story for your future self? You are the author of your story, and you hold the pen to your next chapter. Don't wait until it's too late to create a life that excites you.Rediscover YouFor the woman who wants her next chapter to feel meaningful, joyful, and deeply her own. It’s about reconnecting with yourself and opening the door to new possibilities in midlife.https://www.joclarkcoaching.com/resources/p/rediscover-youConnect with meBook your 20-minute connection call https://calendly.com/jo--138/20min?month=2025-07 RE-IMAGINE: A personalised 1:1 six-week mentoring programme https://www.joclarkcoaching.com/work-with-me Share your journey with me by sending me a message on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/joclarkcoaching/ LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/joclarkcoaching/⁠Email me your success story at [email protected]. Remember, there's so much untapped brilliance in midlife women. You are wise, strong, and talented. You just need the space to hear yourself and the courage to act on what you know.The second half of your life can be even better than the first.

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