Are You Helping or Enabling?

27/05/2025 27 min Temporada 14 Episodio 348
Are You Helping or Enabling?

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I know you have good intentions, but want to know if you are helping or enabling? This episode will help you to discover if you are indeed an enabler: what it really means, the signs you might be an enabler, and the dangers of mistaking enabling for grace (especially within Christian circles and families). I share about my strength in setting boundaries, shaped by the experiences I witnessed growing up, and share practical advice for those who recognize enabling patterns in their marriage, parenting, and relationships. ๐Ÿ”Ž What you’ll learn: What enabling REALLY is (and why it’s not the same as grace!) The difference between peacemaking and “peace-faking” โœŒ๏ธ How enabling shows up in families, churches, relationships & even parenting Why true grace is about EMPOWERMENT, not making excuses ๐Ÿ’ช 4 main reasons we enable (and how to break free!) ๐Ÿ‘‰ Mentioned resources: As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases. Lysa TerKeurst’s Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: https://amzn.to/43V94wj Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life: by Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend: https://amzn.to/3HaQNTQ A Church Called Tov by Scot McKnight: https://amzn.to/3SoOAqm “Peacemaking or Peacefaking?” Rebuilding Us Podcast episode: Listen here. ๐Ÿ“ Like this episode? ๐Ÿ‘‰ PLEASE leave a 5-star review and a few sentences about how this podcast has helped you. Your reviews help more people find Rebuilding US and strengthen their marriages! ๐Ÿ’• Need help with your marriage? Download my FREE 7 Secrets to Know Before You Say I Do or I Did! https://danache.com/7secrets  Follow Dana Che on Instagram, Facebook, and watch these episodes on YouTube! Support the show: https://danache.com/donations/support-the-show/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

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