Listen "Contempt"
Episode Synopsis
Is there someone in your life who, every time you see or think about them, all you want to say is "Ugh"? Or you feel like rolling your eyes every time they say something? It might be a coworker, a sibling, even a romantic partner. And if you thought of someone, it's likely the thing you're feeling toward them is contempt. In the last official episode of season 4, our hosts talk about the poisonous nature of contempt and how it sneaks into our relationships, oftentimes without us realizing it. We propose some healthy antidotes, per the Gottman Institute, and chart a path forward for all of us to pursue healthier relationships.
Gottman Institute articles mentioned or that inspired the episode:
The Four Horsemen: Contempt
How to Change Your Own Contempt
What Causes Contempt in Relationships
Kyla's Recommendation: Spend some time outside, ideally in the sun.
Access the episode transcript.
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Gottman Institute articles mentioned or that inspired the episode:
The Four Horsemen: Contempt
How to Change Your Own Contempt
What Causes Contempt in Relationships
Kyla's Recommendation: Spend some time outside, ideally in the sun.
Access the episode transcript.
Advocacy Center Crisis Hotline (254) 752-7233 or toll free (888) 867-7233.
For information on resources at the Advocacy Center, visit advocacycntr.org, email [email protected], or call or main line at 254-752-9330.
Follow us on Instagram at @ACCVC_Prevention to connect with us and for more great content!
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