In this conversation, Yenson sits down with Xavier Tang, a fellow Cambridge MBA classmate, global professional, and new father based in Toronto. Xavier shares his journey of navigating cultural identity as a first-generation immigrant, how becoming a father has reshaped his views on masculinity and success, and why emotional openness and presence matter more than ever.They dive into growing up in North America as an Asian male, struggling to fit into dominant stereotypes, and the unexpected confidence boost that came from their shared time at Cambridge. Xavier also opens up about parenting in a multicultural household, finding joy in simple family moments, and the balancing act between protecting his daughter and letting her grow.Whether you're a father, a partner, or just someone trying to figure out what it means to be a modern man today—this is a warm, reflective conversation you won’t want to miss.Chapters(00:00) Intro & Xavier’s BackgroundXavier’s personal and cultural background, MBA journey, and family situation.(03:06) Early Fatherhood: Challenges & Emotional SurprisesHow fatherhood began for him—mental preparation, decision-making, and unexpected emotional bonding.(08:20) Cultural Expression & ParentingAsian upbringing, emotional shifts, and influence from Xavier’s multicultural marriage.(14:43) Immigrant Identity & BelongingStruggles with fitting in and reconciling cultural heritage while growing up in North America.(19:19) Masculinity and ConfidenceStereotypes of Asian men and reflections on how self-worth and masculine identity are shaped.(22:33) Turning Point at Cambridge & Personal GrowthHow the MBA experience dismantled insecurities and reshaped Xavier’s sense of self-worth.(26:01) Fatherhood: Values, Presence & Changing PerspectivesAspirations for his daughter, presence over productivity, and evolving political views.(31:01) Protecting Children in a Digital & Global WorldThoughts on tech exposure, mental resilience, and building a family support system.(35:56) Opening Up & Finding Joy in the OrdinaryMen and emotional expression, building trust circles, and simple fatherhood joy.(41:06) Reflections, Advice & Final ThoughtsAdvice to younger self, importance of letting go, and concluding thoughts on meaning and success.Keywordsfatherhood, parenting, cultural influences, masculinity, emotional connection, confidence, modern man, digital future, conversations, personal growthFollow Yenson:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/yensonshe/Substack - https://ordinarybutunique.substack.com/Let's chat!https://calendly.com/yenson-obu/30minMusic from #Uppbeat: https://uppbeat.io/t/color-parade/eastward

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