Listen "S1E20 - Past Sexual Abuse: To Tell Your Partner or Not?"
Episode Synopsis
In this episode, Joseph and Anu respond to Becky's sensitive question which she asked after listening to Episode 005: "Should I Tell Her My Past?" | Having Difficult Conversations in Courtship. Her question goes thus:
"How do you handle it when the secret you are keeping from your partner is to protect someone else. For example, how do you tell the man you are marrying that your own brother or father abused you as a child. This kinda secret can affect the way he feels and relates with that family member or even the whole family. Isn't it easier to say it happened a long time ago, therefore there's no need to dig up the past?"
Joseph and Anu shared some thoughts in response to this.
OTHER RESOURCES MENTIONED
Not Alone Today Podcast Episode 005 - "Should I Tell Her My Past?" | Having Difficult Conversations in Courtship
Omoluabi Podcast, Episode 005 - "Akéde ò jẹ iyán gbígbóná" - A Proverb on Being CAUTIOUS
https://josephola.disha.page/
"How do you handle it when the secret you are keeping from your partner is to protect someone else. For example, how do you tell the man you are marrying that your own brother or father abused you as a child. This kinda secret can affect the way he feels and relates with that family member or even the whole family. Isn't it easier to say it happened a long time ago, therefore there's no need to dig up the past?"
Joseph and Anu shared some thoughts in response to this.
OTHER RESOURCES MENTIONED
Not Alone Today Podcast Episode 005 - "Should I Tell Her My Past?" | Having Difficult Conversations in Courtship
Omoluabi Podcast, Episode 005 - "Akéde ò jẹ iyán gbígbóná" - A Proverb on Being CAUTIOUS
https://josephola.disha.page/
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