Listen "EP. 25: Is It a Tantrum or a Meltdown? The Neurological Truth That Changes Everything"
Episode Synopsis
Your child is melting down in the grocery store. You've tried consequences, bribing, reasoning—nothing works. You leave red-faced, heart racing, wondering what you're doing wrong. Here's the truth: you're not using the wrong strategy, you're using the wrong playbook. In this episode, Dr. Veronica Schiltz and Dr. Serena Coffman reveal the neurological difference between tantrums and meltdowns—and why it changes everything about how you respond. If traditional discipline keeps backfiring, this episode will finally help you understand what's really happening in your child's overwhelmed nervous system. What You'll Learn:The critical difference between behavioral tantrums and neurological meltdownsWhy your child's brain goes "offline" during sensory overload (and why reasoning doesn't work)The three-layer breakdown: input, processing, and output in your child's nervous systemWarning signs that signal your child's bucket is about to overflowWhy punishments, ignoring, and giving in all backfire during true meltdownsThe "perfect storm" of prenatal stress, birth trauma, and early challenges that load the nervous systemPractical strategies for supporting your child in the moment (tight squeeze hugs, reducing stimulation, safe withdrawal)How nervous system scans reveal hidden stress patterns affecting behavior Timestamps:00:00 Introduction00:25 The Grocery Store Meltdown Scenario01:11 Understanding Meltdowns vs. Tantrums01:51 Neurological Shutdowns and Parenting Strategies06:20 The Perfect Storm: Prenatal and Birth Stress11:15 Behavioral Challenges and Nervous System Stress17:00 Practical Tips for Managing Meltdowns Resources Mentioned:PX Docs Directory Connect with Veronica:WebsiteInstagramFacebook Connect with Serena:WebsiteInstagramFacebook
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