Incompatibility is the Leading Cause of Divorce AND It's a Myth

02/09/2025 13 min Temporada 4 Episodio 338
Incompatibility is the Leading Cause of Divorce AND It's a Myth

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Conflict and differences in marriage don't mean you married the wrong person; they simply mean you're two human beings from different backgrounds working together to build a life. Statistics show "incompatibility" is the leading cause of divorce, but what couples often interpret as irreconcilable differences are actually normal variations in perspective.• Differences between spouses are normal and healthy, not red flags• The idea that real love should feel effortless is a damaging myth• Conflict isn't a sign of incompatibility but an opportunity for growth• Working through differences builds intimacy and connection• My husband and I had completely opposite backgrounds regarding travel and dining out• Early conversations about money and lifestyle were extremely strained• It took a decade to find solutions that worked for both of us• We created unique approaches to travel and date nights that blend both perspectives• Successful couples don't agree on everything - they collaborate creatively• Turning differences into strengths makes marriages unbreakableMy book "Bad Marriage Advice: Debunking Myths That Will Make You Miserable And What To Do Instead" launches October 1st. Email me at [email protected] if you'd like to join the launch team and help get it into as many hands as possible.Send us a text

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