Decentering Parents Without Guilt: Finding Confidence & Independence with Shazmeera Qadri

26/09/2025 50 min Episodio 30
Decentering Parents Without Guilt: Finding Confidence & Independence with Shazmeera Qadri

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What does it take to walk away from cultural expectations and finally choose yourself? In this raw and empowering episode of Love-ly, host Mehak sits down with TikTok creator and confidence coach Shazmeera Qadri. From growing up in a Pakistani immigrant household to navigating a toxic marriage and reclaiming her independence, Shazmeera shares how she rebuilt her life with courage and self-respect. She unpacks the guilt immigrant daughters carry, why decentering family opinions isn’t disrespect—it’s self-respect—and the power of surrounding yourself with confident women. 



If you’ve ever questioned whether you can rewrite your story, this conversation will show you that you can.



Hosted by: Mehak @whathemehak on TikTok and @whathemehak_ on IG

Producers: Saadia Khan and Shei Yu | Content Writers: Mehak | Sound Designer & Editor: Lou Raskin I Love-ly Theme Music: Lou Raskin | Other Music: Epidemic Sound | Cover art design: Josephine Chai | Executive Producer: Saadia Khan

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