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Episode Synopsis
Welcome back. Today we’re going to talk about something simple — but powerful. Asking questions.You know the feeling. You’re in a meeting, or on a job site, or with someone you admire — and you have a question. But you hold back. You don’t want to look stupid.Let me tell you something — asking the “stupid” question might be the smartest move you ever make.Why We Stay Silent Most people stay quiet out of fear — fear of judgment, fear of being wrong, fear of looking inexperienced.But here’s the truth: silence doesn’t make you look smart. It just keeps you stuck.Every expert you know — every mentor you admire — they got that way by asking questions. Lots of them. Especially when they didn’t know.Holding back isn’t humble — it’s hesitant. And it costs you growth.Questions Show You Care Asking questions says, “I want to learn. I want to get it right.”Whether it’s about a process, a contract, a parenting challenge, or a relationship — questions are a sign of maturity.I’d rather hire the guy who asks 10 questions to get it right than the one who nods and messes everything up.Curiosity shows commitment. The people who grow fastest are the ones willing to admit they don’t have all the answers.Building a Culture of Questions As a father, a business owner, and a leader — I want to model asking questions. I want my kids to ask why. I want my team to challenge the process.Because questions lead to better systems. Better decisions. Better outcomes.If you lead anything — a team, a family, a project — make it safe to ask.Make it clear that questions aren’t weakness. They’re wisdom.Final thought — don’t be too proud to ask the damn question. The cost of not asking is usually way higher than the cost of momentary discomfort.You want to grow? Get curious. You want to lead? Get humble. You want to succeed? Ask better questions.I’m RJ. Go ask something today — and watch what opens up.
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