Listen "When Kindness Becomes the Target: The Shocking Paradox of Being Punished for Your Love"
Episode Synopsis
Examines why a person in a relationship may suddenly become angry, aggressive, or neglectful toward a partner who has done nothing wrong. It explains that this behavior often arises not from the partner’s faults but as a paradoxical reaction to kindness, loyalty, and gentleness. When someone who grew up with neglect or disappointment finally feels safe, their long-suppressed rage and resentment from the past can surface, and they unconsciously direct it at the loving person in front of them. A similar pattern can appear in adoptive families, where adolescents may act out more intensely in response to greater kindness. Despite the destructiveness, the underlying drive is still a desire for love and acceptance, but it emerges entangled with unprocessed pain that must be expressed before it can be healed.Produced by:https://www.podcaistudio.com/
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