In this episode, Jeffrey and psychoanalyst Adam Ayala delve into the intricate dynamics of empathy and emotional presence, drawing insights from John Madonna’s work and tactical empathy techniques. They explore the fine lines between sympathy, empathy, and pity, while unpacking complex concepts like transference and soul murder.
The conversation offers practical and thought-provoking guidance on navigating the promise and peril of empathy in both personal and professional contexts.
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OUTLINE:
00:00 Introduction
02:40 Emotional Presence & Empathy
13:59 Sympathy vs. Empathy
31:17 Misguided Empathy & Soul Murder
45:16 Balancing Assumptions & Inquiry
01:18:47 Philosophy in Psychoanalytic Training
01:28:31 Genuine Empathy vs. Manipulation
01:46:24 Suffering Well
01:50:03 Modern Perspectives on Freud & Jung
02:03:18 Final Thoughts & Outro
 
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This episode has been co-produced by Kate van Leeuwen.

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