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Episode Synopsis
Welcome to Into The Mirror. Season 2. Episode 8.
Bullies, cynics, and the cruel do exist. Being bullied sucks and it's an awful challenging belief in yourself to be overcame. There is no situation you have to stay in as it is even prison. What I mean is all things can change and this includes well everything even our relationships with others.
For me this episode was triggering as I have learned that bullies are not quite what 7 year old Alexander believes. I have been both the hurt one and I have also caused a lot of hurt to all the people I love. In fact I have hurt the ones I love the deepest and learning to release myself from that shame is ABSOLUTELY 100000% necessary.
Why do I say this? Well, for me most people were very tired and very hurt by me because I failed for so long. Or I used to believe I was failing but I now see I was just practicing. So, when I finally started getting better some people kept trying to reinforce the old failing Alex. Not the fully successful me Alexander the grown man who faced his demons, I understand I did hurt people but at some point ENOUGH is ENOUGH.
This is because they are not wanting to be better or are afraid to be better and if the scape goat is better what do they do now? They can't blame so some try to destroy and create the very chaos you worked years to escape. Why would people that love you do this? Can our families, friends, and lovers seem to try and keep us stuck? Of course they can, frienemies are everywhere.
WE ARE SO MUCH MORE THAN THE GARBAGE WE HAVE BEEN TAUGHT.
Until you can forgive and let go you're going to stay stuck.
Now find those judgements and please do yourself a favor and let it go.
Bullies, cynics, and the cruel do exist. Being bullied sucks and it's an awful challenging belief in yourself to be overcame. There is no situation you have to stay in as it is even prison. What I mean is all things can change and this includes well everything even our relationships with others.
For me this episode was triggering as I have learned that bullies are not quite what 7 year old Alexander believes. I have been both the hurt one and I have also caused a lot of hurt to all the people I love. In fact I have hurt the ones I love the deepest and learning to release myself from that shame is ABSOLUTELY 100000% necessary.
Why do I say this? Well, for me most people were very tired and very hurt by me because I failed for so long. Or I used to believe I was failing but I now see I was just practicing. So, when I finally started getting better some people kept trying to reinforce the old failing Alex. Not the fully successful me Alexander the grown man who faced his demons, I understand I did hurt people but at some point ENOUGH is ENOUGH.
This is because they are not wanting to be better or are afraid to be better and if the scape goat is better what do they do now? They can't blame so some try to destroy and create the very chaos you worked years to escape. Why would people that love you do this? Can our families, friends, and lovers seem to try and keep us stuck? Of course they can, frienemies are everywhere.
WE ARE SO MUCH MORE THAN THE GARBAGE WE HAVE BEEN TAUGHT.
Until you can forgive and let go you're going to stay stuck.
Now find those judgements and please do yourself a favor and let it go.
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