What do you do with a gift you never really learned how to use? We often treat sex like the expensive china we registered for but never use—beautiful in theory, awkward in practice. But sex isn’t just skin-deep.   In this episode, Heather and Jamie talked about how our minds—and marriages—need renewing. Jamie shares the invisible legacy of trauma passed down through her family, while Heather opens up about the pressure to “perform” intimacy without ever being taught what godly sexual intimacy actually looks like. Let’s renew our minds together!    Show Notes: Book Recommendations: Embodied by Gregg Allison The Great Sex Rescue by Sheila Wray Gregoire How and When to Tell Your Kids about Sex by Stan and Brenna Jones   Want to connect with a pastor? Fill out our connect form so that we can connect with the right team and resources: https://my.churchonthemove.com/connect Take Our Survey! https://cotmforms.wufoo.com/forms/x1a2abnw1v4fote/   Time Stamps: 0:00 – Let’s Talk About Sex (And Why It Matters) 0:56 – Real Talk: What the Survey Revealed 2:00 – “Why Do I Still Feel Broken?” 5:52 – Inherited Silence: Family, Shame, and What Wasn’t Said 9:03 – Digging Into God’s Heart for Sex 12:06 – When Culture Teaches More Than Church 13:16 – The Doctor Asked WHAT?! 14:30 – Marriage Isn’t Just a Roommate Agreement 16:04 – Preparing for Connection (All Day Long) 18:15 – Know Your Body, Know Your Rhythm 19:44 – Sex Is Sacred: 1 Corinthians 6, Unpacked 21:13 – Consent, Abuse, and the Marriage Bed 23:01 – Song of Solomon: The Original Love Poem 25:29 – Let’s Not Keep This Hidden 28:02 – From Shame to Freedom 30:02 – Where to Start When You’re Struggling 32:20 – A Radical Testimony of Surrender 34:38 – No Shame, Just an Invitation

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