Listen "82. Defensive Pessimism"
Episode Synopsis
In this episode, Steph addresses the way people talk to themselves. She uses the example of her stepdaughter talking down to herself after she tried out for a solo performance. Steph breaks down the concept of defensive pessimism, its psychological effects, and the distinction between being prepared and simply being pessimistic. The conversation emphasizes the significance of high-frequency emotions in achieving success and the power of perspective in shaping our experiences.Chapters00:00 Celebrating Achievements: Upcoming Carnegie Hall Performance02:25 The Challenge of Self-Belief in Adolescence04:48 Understanding Defensive Pessimism: A Double-Edged Sword07:04 The Impact of Energy and Mindset on Relationships09:40 Choosing Optimism: The Power of High Frequency Emotions11:13 Broadcasting Positivity: Creating Opportunities in Life
More episodes of the podcast Impact Ready
172. The Secret to Relationships
08/01/2026
170. Creation > Consumption
01/01/2026
169. The Blame Game
29/12/2025
168. The "Just One More Moment" Theory
27/12/2025
167. Bold Moves
22/12/2025
166. Finish Line
18/12/2025
165. Filters (and the Olympics)
15/12/2025
164. C-T-F-A-R
11/12/2025
163. 10,000 Hours
08/12/2025
ZARZA We are Zarza, the prestigious firm behind major projects in information technology.